"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you find out if she's already with someone else?

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I never did figure this out and it's hardly mention anywhere else in this site.

So how do you guys usually find out? Is it a good idea to ask her directly?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just incorporate the idea of a boyfriend into a conversation somehow. LIke if she told you she went shopping this weekened, just be like "So you're boyfriend left broke by the end of the day?" something like that
 
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Oh boy... DJ bible time. Why do you even CARE if she's with someone? You could be having a great convo. She's really digging you and then you have to go remind her that she has a BF.

She may be deciding that you are better than her current BF and decide to switch over to you, but if you ask and she tells you yes that instantly changes the dynamic. She now verbally stated her identity as a GF of another person and to go out with you would go against her stated identity. This may seem like a small point but twice I charged up...started dating these girls and only later found out that they had dumped their BF to be with me.

Anyway you WILL find out if she's with someone...just go for it. If she's serious about the other guy she will tell you flat out, but if the answer to your approach is yes then you are in and it doesn't matter if she was "with someone"
 
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yeah you can usually draw that out in the first 10 mins of covo with a girl.
 
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generally they bring it up .. theyll drop it in the convo at some point - sometimes when they drop it in they will watch you like a hawk to see how u react so just be prepaired and dont get discouraged.... even if they have a BF say some CF and move on -

or you could just ask while in convo - just say somehting like "so did your boyfriend get you those shoes?" or "what about your boyfriend?" or just say "so are you seeing anyone right now" (i wouldnt say that until a little convo before...
hope that hepls a lil

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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