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How Do You Find Another Girl For a Threesome

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There are apps for this, specifically for threesomes etc.
There are. Feeld is one of the main apps for this. Feeld was previously known as 3nder.

Unattached women who are seeking to be thirds for couples on apps are rare. They could probably be called unicorns, just like unattached women seeking to be thirds for couples were called unicorns for in-person swinging communities.

The experience of picking up a woman to be a third on an app resembles being a 50th percentile guy trying to get your dicck wet on Tinder from one woman in 2021-22. In other words, a complete waste of time.

If you want to pick up a female 3rd for a threesome, I would recommend doing it through real life means. Probably in-person social communities around that idea rather than Feeld.
 

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But here even you are saying that kissing is more intimate than intercourse, which is what I find strange.

Reminds me of the basic PUA premise "Well, I don't like the girl, she's proven herself unworthy, so I won't go out with her but I'll bang her instead".
why is it weird? Something happens in a kiss. I myself love kissing but because of the pua theory I have wanted to try fvcking with no kissing but it’s something I crave a lot.
 

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So I was having a chat last night with my girlfriend, long story short we started talking about threesomes. She is on board with the idea as long as i don't "kiss the other girl" during it. She says it would be too awkward with one of her friends but she's willing to do it with a New girl.

How exactly can I find another girl that is willing to go along with this? Do people set up Tinder profiles specifically for this or cold approach random women asking about this? I've never experienced a threesome before and I really want to try it out.
Make sure you're okay with a threesome involving another guy, too. As soon as you get your wish, she'll want hers.

In reality, threesomes are usually for poly couples or between people you do not know or intend to see ever again.

But if you must know, find communities of static dancing, raving, etc.


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why is it weird? Something happens in a kiss. I myself love kissing but because of the pua theory I have wanted to try fvcking with no kissing but it’s something I crave a lot.
It did seem strange but my gf claimed that "kissing is too intimate". I guess women don't value sex that much idk.
 

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It did seem strange but my gf claimed that "kissing is too intimate". I guess women don't value sex that much idk.
Yeah my ex said the same thing. I’m assuming it bonds more. Think about it biologically, a brute who only cares about spreading his seed won’t waste time kissing

it makes perfect sense to me
 

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Make sure you're okay with a threesome involving another guy, too. As soon as you get your wish, she'll want hers.

In reality, threesomes are usually for poly couples or between people you do not know or intend to see ever again.

But if you must know, find communities of static dancing, raving, etc.


Modern Man Advice
We mentioned mmf threesomes, she doesn't seem too into that either. I would rather break up then ever do that.

Usually 3 somes just happen. Nights out etc etc. Stick to in person.
Thats BS about their GFs. That uncomfort they complain about is what makes it hot.
You would be surprised how many of the girls you grew up with in highschool college were fcking around with each other.
I always heard stories thats true
 

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Porn like sex is not intimate. Banging is more pornish than making love, etc.... Doggie style is definetely not intimate.
As I said before, I understand the mindset, but I disagree that intercourse is not intimate, regardless of position. At least not any less intimate than a kiss.
 

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Kissing is the first thing to go in an LTR. Its the biggest redflag that there is to tell a man were he stands with his girl. If she is not willing to tung suck then something is off. Usually about a 10 month window.
The girls request this because they know this.
As soon as she stops kissing you better look for her replacement or get more attractive.
Interesting. Ex and I were kissing right up till the end. She didn’t want me kissing other girls tho
 

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As I said before, I understand the mindset, but I disagree that intercourse is not intimate, regardless of position. At least not any less intimate than a kiss.
Women are very strange, even when i looked up escort ads i often noticed a lot of them had "no kissing" or "no french kiss" rules but were perfectly okay with Unprotected BJs.
 

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Women are very strange, even when i looked up escort ads i often noticed a lot of them had "no kissing" or "no french kiss" rules but were perfectly okay with Unprotected BJs.
Oh well, as long as the BJ is in there. :)
Strange though.
 
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