How do you filter women?

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Colossus

Master Don Juan

Mar 17, 2016

The more you date the finer your filter becomes. If you make it into you 30's as a DJ or at least an enlightened man your tolerance will be so thin you'll eject at the drop of a hat.

Some of mine upfront were:

-She cant be a partyer
-No kids
-No previous marriages
-Under 30
-Commitment to physical fitness
-No flake policy
-On time
-And so many more I couldn't even list them all.

Whole chapter devoted to this in my book.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.