"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you feel dating a women with kids?

pinkfl

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It's not that I think that these women are undateable, I just think they should date a guy with similar baggage.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dmvmang

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Yeah I thought about this today. I sent her a small text today and she has not responded for whatever reason. She contacts me, not the other way around. Anyway while all the signs were their she liked me and she mentioned "dropping her kids off at their father's house". Something tells me something ain't right with the husband. So I deleted her phone number and will move on. I don't want the drama. I will continue to search until I find someone. Thanks for the suggestions.
 
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