"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DarkLight said:
Well said... and oh so true.

JonWon-

Do as you will man.
But my path isn't about pvssy... its about spirit.
And in particular... MY spirit.

I'm here to realize the height of my potential being a MAN.
And the more integrity I hold, the more power I command.
The rewards of my experience agree w. me as well.
Whether it be pvssy, money, a smile, or just being able to relax into myself and enjoy what I've created.

Hope your choices bring you the same.
Peace'
Ah spirit, which kind?
There are many!
Conversations with god.
Spiritualism.
Budist
Even other religions
Including Satanism.

To me true spiritualism Is learning what one self is about, a message that can be derived from all the above in some form.
Now if your idea of spiritual growth equals, integrity (in what format do you consider your integrity to lay), Growth from your experiences e.t.c are very positive and imo the best pursuits, your ideals of being a MAN (which may be completely different to some one else’s, not only from the same culture but of different cultures also).

I am glad you have found your way that is right for you and if you truly believe in spiritual growth then you will see it is not the same for every-one.
There is an underlying message in spiritualism and that is LOVE. Very noble way to be in truth, even Satanism is around love in a context, even though it is segregated (but no more then any other religion). But the true message about LOVE is to love your-self FIRST, that means becoming what ever you want to be. This to me is the true definition of a MAN, or even a women, when one knows what they want out of life and peruses it. Regardless of what others seem to think is right or wrong. I am simply my own judge in all of this!

And like others i am a product of my choices and experiances, so in that i am sure i will be relaxed :D

But thanks for the post!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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