ProteinShakee
Don Juan
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- Mar 4, 2019
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Hello gentlemen. I am currently 24, soon to be 25 and as i keep growing older i keep noticing one thing growing along with me, my fear of contracting something from intimate physical contact from a woman i just met, i don't need to explain how the older they are, the more miles they are likely to have in them.
The reason why creating this thread occured to me is that a couple of weeks ago while on a drunken stupor with my friend, a 40ish woman simply came and started kissing me, she wasn't bad looking and it wasn't until the next day that it occurred to me that there is a massive chance that by doing something like this you could easily contract std's such as oral herpes etc that will remain with you for life. Fortunately i was clean and afterwards i remembered another event that occurred years back.
One girl i went on a date with had herpes on her lip and when she leaned in to kiss me, naturally i pulled back and she kept trying to convince me that it isn't contagious, thus i believe that even if you were to directly confront a woman about it, she would lie or try to manipulate you into getting intimate with her if that's what she wants from you, thus it's impossible to trust them, especially a woman you just met, sure there are exceptions to this but I'd trust myself instead of trusting in them.
So as i keep meeting more and more women, this fear lingers in the back of my mind as i try to screen them as best as i can.
How do you guys evaluate a woman on this particular subject? Do you have any specific cues that you are looking for, specific covert questions and such, or do you just take leaps of faith hoping for the best?
The reason why creating this thread occured to me is that a couple of weeks ago while on a drunken stupor with my friend, a 40ish woman simply came and started kissing me, she wasn't bad looking and it wasn't until the next day that it occurred to me that there is a massive chance that by doing something like this you could easily contract std's such as oral herpes etc that will remain with you for life. Fortunately i was clean and afterwards i remembered another event that occurred years back.
One girl i went on a date with had herpes on her lip and when she leaned in to kiss me, naturally i pulled back and she kept trying to convince me that it isn't contagious, thus i believe that even if you were to directly confront a woman about it, she would lie or try to manipulate you into getting intimate with her if that's what she wants from you, thus it's impossible to trust them, especially a woman you just met, sure there are exceptions to this but I'd trust myself instead of trusting in them.
So as i keep meeting more and more women, this fear lingers in the back of my mind as i try to screen them as best as i can.
How do you guys evaluate a woman on this particular subject? Do you have any specific cues that you are looking for, specific covert questions and such, or do you just take leaps of faith hoping for the best?