How do you escalate from a MASSAGE??

[Ragin_Asian]

I love massages....period.

I love giving as much as recieving especially girls with a tone body. Then they could return the favour lol.

I've had well over 30 girls experience in giving massages but only a very, very small amount lead to a make out sesh. With that experience I am getting very good at it but need more techniques to make it heaps better and how to escalate all the way so I can get jiggy with these girls. I used to give them for the fun of giving them, now I want something more.

How do you start, step by step, massage right through actually making out or going all out??

MR. FINGERS WHERE ARE YOU!!!!!!

How do you set the mood in the room??

When and how do you make a move??

Is there any areas (normal body parts) I can work with and techniques that lead to what I want?

 

[Alpine]

Surely it depends in what context you are giving a massage in the first place.

If you say your just doing massage, then that's what they'll expect. From there I guess you're just hoping you'll get them going and jump you.

Having said that, all though not implicitly stated, when I giv a massage they know EXACTLY what to expect.

Getting them relaxed, avoiding obvious zones and building up the anticipation are great, then gradually teasing them with you roving hands.

Set the scene, candles smells music, but I think you need to be more clear in what you are offering up.

 

[johnny_chase]

lol, i think Alpine got your number on this one. If you offer them just a massage, that's what they expect. Now, i'm going to assume you mean massaging their bare back, not just an innocent neck rub, cause we all do that, that is nothing.

When you tell a girl you want to massage her body, dont say it like you're selling vaccumm cleaners. She has to get the message. Then basically, it;s just a matter of time. Oils and scented candles, dimmed lights, calming music, oh, and wehn you give the massage, i usually kind of mount the girl, with my knees on either side of her hips, it's easier for me.

Like Alpine said, keep them relaxed, avoid obvious treasure spots. To escalate though, give her a good back rub on major muscle groups, not too much pressuer. Note how it goes, and then every so often just let one of your hands wander and work the muscles along her ribs, no titty action here. Move to her extreme lower back, usually a lot of tenseness,every so often rub her butt, note how she reacts

 

[Ragin_Asian]

When I invite her for a massage how do I send that "message" and how do I do it so that massage aint the only thing on the cards and things might get heated up? How do I differentiate the 2?

I tend to stay away from obvious spots like titty grab or inside thighs. I do, on the other hand, vary the pressure from a constant hard-ish pressure to a very soft feathery touch (almost tickly but borderline).

How do you know when its time to make a move? Maybe the massage is so good that shes imagining shes in a different place and forgets that your there in the first place. I don't want it to be so relaxing she falls asleep lol. (read on of mr. fingers posts)

If I got down to her bare back either with her bra on or topless...where can I move from there??

If this could be used as an escape from friendszone how would I go about with a massage move?

If theyre doing the massage on me how do I direct them so it becomes more towards the sexual side (I'm not gonna ask herto massage my wang u pervs lol)

 

[Climax]

Try this...

lol! massages.... aaaaaaahhhhh...

ok Mr Ragin_Asian... let me help you out a little here

Lets say that you and this one girl are at your house and you are giving her a massage... now even if you DIDNT make it clear to her that you want something "jiggy" to happen you can STILL make it happen.... I'll give you a small list of things that you can do in order to make this happen, and i KNOW that they all work because i have done and succeeded with all of them

* While massaging her back softly start kissing her back... start from her lower back, and go up her spine kissing her softly all the way up to her neck... her reaction to this will probably be that she will shiver abit, but she will be loving it, and it will be turning her on as well.


* If you DO talk during giving her a massage, make sure it is something that will get her in the mood to get "jiggy".. Eg: DONT speak about your car problems or something boring...


* Now this one is GOLD ... You can use examples of real life, and "act" them out on her back, and then use her body parts as examples of "places"... let me explain... Lets say you are talking about your car and how nice it is... and you are massaging her stomach... then u can use your hand (while massaging her) as the "car" and then let her belly button be the eg: petrol station... and then say something like your going on a road trip and move to her arms etc... then when u get to her b00bs u say something like " looks like this road is closed off" etc... so u getting her to laugh, have a good time, and enjoy the massage... put all thsoe togeather and u get a chick that normally gets turned on.


* what i really like to do is while i am massaging her for a while (her back) i massage her upper back from the SIDE of her, and then start talking to her while massaging her... then i move closer and closer to her and then taking my hands away from her back, i gently hold her face, make eye contact, and kiss her... from this point you should be sorted


* I dont know how to explain this.... but when u are massaging her back, out your hands around her sides as if u were holding her ( like you would hold a sandwidge in your hands) and then go UP like that till u cant go up any more because of her b00bs getting in the way, then u dont stop, u just tilt your hands so that your hands are in the same motion, just that u tilt them so your fingers wont touch her b00bs... then in the same motion u go up, and when u get to her neck u continue till you get to theirlower head... now this motions is a slowish intence motion that should bring shivers to her... I dont know if my explanation is the best way to explain it to you... but trust me, if u do it right, it works wonders!


Have you ever looked at a woman with a silk night gown on? the way that silk touches her body is so gentle, so smooth, so perfect! now try do that with your hands over a womans body, and see the affects... i got the idea from the movie called " Don Juan De Marco " ( Which i recommend EVERYONE watches ) and i tried it out a few times... and the ladies seem to really enjoy it... so just pretend that your hands are that silky night gown on her delcate body, and see how they react

Knowing a womans body what what she likes best also helps alot, cause then you will know what to do and what will "affect" the girl more... most girls react very similarly when recieving a massage... so the more u give girls massages, the better the chances that u will satisfy them and be able to turn them on are.

I found a rather helptfull site that you can go check out as well...

http://www.themarriagebed.com/massage-full.shtml

Well anyways.. i beta be on my way... so i hope that this helped u

Laterz...

 

[Alpine]

Ragin,

You've got a long way to go haven't you lad.

Where do I start, well, I think it would be good if you generally start talking more erotically, or dropping double meanings (watch a few carry on films, uw, er ,mrs).

You need to be seen as a sexual person, this starts sending the message out, but again I'm a bit worried your game is so off, you might over do it and look a plonker. Ease into it. Touch people more both men (power touch)and women, blokes on the back and upper arm, girls especially on the lower arm.

Anyway, see who picks up on this, talk about sex, dirty sex. I do lots of things uncousciously now but thinking about it i do an eyebrow flash sometimes when I drop a double meaning, lower tone on key phrases and slow them down.

So at some stage I'd say whilst talking about sex. Yeah I tell you what though, a nice long, slow massage can be one of the most wonderful things you know, have you found that?

Said as above with solid eye contact, hint of a smile.

Now you may scare the odd one off, but if someone comes round your house for a massage after that and doesn't expect to jump your boner then I don't know what.

The nape of the neck I read was the key zone to go for, but basically I found all women are different and the key is to talk to them. Gradually work down, really work legs, very important. tease naughty bits, flip her, do same, go back to neck, lick, nibble work down and around. At some piont they will grab your hair and stuff you on their fanny.

A nice trick is to ASK them what the like- Which do you prefer this...... or that... keep going with similar phrases, but after a while they make noises and you go off that.

There's a book you should get called the art of erotic talk. It's just up your street for this sort of thing.