"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you envision yourself at your perfect place?

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i don't know how everyone is, but I will admit I am ****y and confident about what I want in my life and where I want to end up.


I know that if I settle down eventually, it will be with a hot cool girl. I've seen a few and I know THAT right there is my gf or future wife. It isn't some random chick who blessed me to let me hit it..


I know that I want to travel around the world, so I've been doing that too.

I know that I want to be in shape my whole life, so I've been hitting the wights for years

I know that I need to know how to fight if I have to, so I've been getting into MMA training

I know that I want to do a lot of exciting stuff and learn how to make money and I KNOW I WANT TO BE ON THE TOP LEVEL... or however you define not living a boring life doing 9-5 and driving a BMW




now, i know some people have lower standards and some have WAY too high


how many of you spend time visualiing where you want to be, and feel like YOU COULD do it.


when i started years ago, I could never dream to be able to get the girls I can now or do certain things i do now... but I knew eventually it will happen.

will it happen for you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Awesome mindset man!

Since you mentioned that a few years back you didn't think this way, what triggered you to have this new frame of mind? Or did you gradually slowly start to change by practicing the game?

I know for me, I recently started to develop this mindset also. I recently was in a rut and after countless nights of thinking, I had this sudden "fire" I would say light up in me. My grades improved. My fitness improved. My game improved. I can't really describe my new drive in life because I don't really have a set goal to reach per say, but as a Lexus commercial once said "here's to the moment, and squeezing all you can out of every last single one of them". And it looks like we're both striving to do just that.
 
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