"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you envision yourself at your perfect place?

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i don't know how everyone is, but I will admit I am ****y and confident about what I want in my life and where I want to end up.


I know that if I settle down eventually, it will be with a hot cool girl. I've seen a few and I know THAT right there is my gf or future wife. It isn't some random chick who blessed me to let me hit it..


I know that I want to travel around the world, so I've been doing that too.

I know that I want to be in shape my whole life, so I've been hitting the wights for years

I know that I need to know how to fight if I have to, so I've been getting into MMA training

I know that I want to do a lot of exciting stuff and learn how to make money and I KNOW I WANT TO BE ON THE TOP LEVEL... or however you define not living a boring life doing 9-5 and driving a BMW




now, i know some people have lower standards and some have WAY too high


how many of you spend time visualiing where you want to be, and feel like YOU COULD do it.


when i started years ago, I could never dream to be able to get the girls I can now or do certain things i do now... but I knew eventually it will happen.

will it happen for you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Awesome mindset man!

Since you mentioned that a few years back you didn't think this way, what triggered you to have this new frame of mind? Or did you gradually slowly start to change by practicing the game?

I know for me, I recently started to develop this mindset also. I recently was in a rut and after countless nights of thinking, I had this sudden "fire" I would say light up in me. My grades improved. My fitness improved. My game improved. I can't really describe my new drive in life because I don't really have a set goal to reach per say, but as a Lexus commercial once said "here's to the moment, and squeezing all you can out of every last single one of them". And it looks like we're both striving to do just that.
 
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