"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you dump a BPD?

Blue Phoenix

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Captain said:
Same as any other woman, she gets no special treatment. "BPD" women get way too much time dedicated to them around here.
They are not the same as other women. They loathe rejection more than anything else. How to get rid of them? Here we go>>>

Separating from "The Borderline" often involves three stages:
1.The Detachment,
2. Ending the Relationship,
3. and the Follow-up Protection.
The MOST CRITICAL stage is the third, cover all your bases!!

Here´s a manual by a Phd (A FIVE page document on how to "dump" them):
http://www.bpdfamily.com/bpdresources/carver.pdf

I really think this should be added in the DJ Bible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snowdog

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Ice882 said:
Snowdog I don't think either of us can really say that lol
hahaha you're right

Die Hard said:
Chill, dude :). I didn't intend to be condescending with my comment, 'twas just some innocent sarcasm.
Don't worry man, I just always wanted to say that cause it always sounds so ****ing cool in gangster movies.
 
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