"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you dress for a renaissance fair?

venser

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So a class of mine requires us to go to the renaissance fair and so I asked this chick in the class to go with me.

Now at the renaissance fairs you are supposed to dress up and I think it might even be required.

How should I dress to this? I don't want to go all out but I dont want anyone to complain either. I want to do enough that people are satisfied but not so much as where I seem like I spent hours designing an outfit or something.

You guys ever go to these before? what did you do? Im not really friends with this girl, I just met her like 2 weeks ago.(im actually trying to game her)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Whats a renaissance fair?
just wear a nice button down shirt and some jeans and you'll be fine lol.

nothing fancy, you can tuck it in if ya want tho.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
wow lmao man did I get that wrong hahahah.
'Ya think? ;)

Also, you can find cheap(er) replicas on eBay. It's good if you don't plan on going often but with the right outfit you can have a ton of fun attracting the local wenches (hors if you want your women as cheap as your garb).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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hell... lol
btw, which forum is the visualizations thread in?
 

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hahah don't dress up man, unless your in the fair but from what I take your just going to it.. just dress normally.
 

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yeah i wanna just dress normally but i dont think you can. Like i dont think admission is granted if you dont dress up. I am not sure, ive never been to one. Shes prolyl going to dress up though so id seem self-conscious or something if I didint make some sort of effort.
 

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cool site though, gives me much better idea on what im supposed to do.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
hell... lol
btw, which forum is the visualizations thread in?
Anything Else. Do a search on "psycho-cybernetics" if you can't find it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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