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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

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How do you draw the line when Pushing/Pulling?

venser

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I find myself in a really awkward position. in one of my classes there are two girls, a HB9 and a HB7or8 that I am gaming. Both of them, i am pretty sure are somewhat interested in me. (though HOW interested, i have no clue). ANyways, at first i thought it would be a breeze picking them both up and using them against eachother for social proof and Push/Pull.

However, the problem i now have is that while I can give one attention and then take it away (as dictated in Push/Pull) easily by talking to the other girl the next day or at the break or wahtever i am this problem where I can't find the balance between giving someone enough attention so that they know i am interested and giving them attention and then taking it away.

Sorry if i dont make any sense, its really hard for me to verbalize what i am trying to say.

So like its important to show the girl your interested, and at the same time its important to take your attention away from her. How do I draw the line? I think this is killing me here and i am in danger of being friend-zoned.
 

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ready123

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what you're doing is called a jealousy plot line

the whole point of that, push-pull, social proof is to attract the girl enough that you can ask her out OR isolate her.

which of the girls do you like more? when are you planning to ask her out? or are you just gonna practice your attraction game indefinately?
 

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Quit trying to play little games, pick one and proceed. After you f-close one, you'll have a better chance with the other, if you're trying to get them both. If you are into these games, f-close the one you like least first, then use her in the plotline to get the one you really want.
 

venser

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ahh icic. what if I don't know which one i like more? hmm.

i really dont know what I want out of this.
 
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