Three3Kingz
Don Juan
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i often have trouble with girls when it comes to who should be making the moves. I have a couple examples from the last six weeks or so:
1. met this HB 9 one night at a party (month and a half ago) and i banged her the following night. Rather than just leave it at that, she told me she wanted to hang out with me again when i was leaving. So we kinda carried it on for a couple weeks, and she would always be the one trying to spend time with me, but would flake ALOT. So i had a hard time determining if she was into me or not. very frustrating because she would always be texting me, but would never follow through with plans. Long story short, i finally stood up and said eff this. she texted me late one night last week but i didnt even text her back. We havnt talked since. Obviously i want to talk to her to see what happens but i know better than that.
2. met this HB 8 at a party about a month ago and didnt bang her but just made out hardcore. i ended up leaving with her number so ive been talkin to her and hangin with her a decent amount. But this girl will not initiate ANYTHING with me at all. But the thing is, she has never flaked on me when i say we should chill. I want to back off her to see if she comes back, but everytime i do she hasnt done anything, so idk. i guess this is better than #1.
3. the most recent girl i met, HB 9 was just two weekends ago. i met her at a party and talked to her just a little bit, but she was clearly into me. when she was leaving i was walking to my car to grab my phone and i happened to walk right past hers so she opened the window and started chattin
Her: HEY!
Me: Hey... your leaving already?!!
Her: Yeah i have to go home for bla bla bla
Me: Oh well give me your number then
Her: (rattles her number off the head right away)
So ive been textin her on and off for the past week and a half. When i say we should do something shell respond with stuff like "maybe
" hinting that she wants to . i tried calling her a few times but she had dance and sht like that(legit) but she always texts back later. But again, with this girl, she NEVER initiates anything. We havnt really talked at all and havnt hung out so i think it would be best for me to call her and atleast talk to her to build some value for myself before i try to meet up. But obviously i want to tell her we should chill tomorrow or something like that.
4. Another example from the same party as #3. i was talkin to another girl HB 7 after HB 9 left. This girl was all over me. i got her number real quick cuz the girl having the party booted everyone out cuz some retard spilled a beer on another kid and they got into a fight and it was like 3 in the morning. Anyways this girl wasnt really that great but i kept texting her for a little while after cuz i was hammered and didnt really care :crazy: :crackup: ..she told me to text her the next morning but i never did. she didnt either.
Bottom line is im having a hard time determining whether i should continue taking action or let these girls make a move. I think its okay for me to make the moves as long as the girls continue going for it cuz it seems like even the girls that are interested wont make any moves anyway? How do you guys like to handle these things?
1. met this HB 9 one night at a party (month and a half ago) and i banged her the following night. Rather than just leave it at that, she told me she wanted to hang out with me again when i was leaving. So we kinda carried it on for a couple weeks, and she would always be the one trying to spend time with me, but would flake ALOT. So i had a hard time determining if she was into me or not. very frustrating because she would always be texting me, but would never follow through with plans. Long story short, i finally stood up and said eff this. she texted me late one night last week but i didnt even text her back. We havnt talked since. Obviously i want to talk to her to see what happens but i know better than that.
2. met this HB 8 at a party about a month ago and didnt bang her but just made out hardcore. i ended up leaving with her number so ive been talkin to her and hangin with her a decent amount. But this girl will not initiate ANYTHING with me at all. But the thing is, she has never flaked on me when i say we should chill. I want to back off her to see if she comes back, but everytime i do she hasnt done anything, so idk. i guess this is better than #1.
3. the most recent girl i met, HB 9 was just two weekends ago. i met her at a party and talked to her just a little bit, but she was clearly into me. when she was leaving i was walking to my car to grab my phone and i happened to walk right past hers so she opened the window and started chattin
Her: HEY!
Me: Hey... your leaving already?!!
Her: Yeah i have to go home for bla bla bla
Me: Oh well give me your number then
Her: (rattles her number off the head right away)
So ive been textin her on and off for the past week and a half. When i say we should do something shell respond with stuff like "maybe
" hinting that she wants to . i tried calling her a few times but she had dance and sht like that(legit) but she always texts back later. But again, with this girl, she NEVER initiates anything. We havnt really talked at all and havnt hung out so i think it would be best for me to call her and atleast talk to her to build some value for myself before i try to meet up. But obviously i want to tell her we should chill tomorrow or something like that. 4. Another example from the same party as #3. i was talkin to another girl HB 7 after HB 9 left. This girl was all over me. i got her number real quick cuz the girl having the party booted everyone out cuz some retard spilled a beer on another kid and they got into a fight and it was like 3 in the morning. Anyways this girl wasnt really that great but i kept texting her for a little while after cuz i was hammered and didnt really care :crazy: :crackup: ..she told me to text her the next morning but i never did. she didnt either.
Bottom line is im having a hard time determining whether i should continue taking action or let these girls make a move. I think its okay for me to make the moves as long as the girls continue going for it cuz it seems like even the girls that are interested wont make any moves anyway? How do you guys like to handle these things?