I finally went to dinner with this chick and I thought she had high interest based on the texts and plus being my date to formal. During it I learned she was really friendly, so that kind of stumped me. However, I noticed that she still came to dinner with me even after she ate and she threw her cell phone aside. Now, I really can't tell if I'm being led on or not
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do you determine interest level if the girl is really friendly
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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If I were you I would try to establish physical contact and see her reaction.
Im not talking about going for the kiss (it can be done as well if you like to risk), Im talking about holding her hand or get physically close to her to see her reaction.
If she really likes you she wont mind it and if she dont like you well, you didnt risk anything anyway, you only had your answer.
Im not talking about going for the kiss (it can be done as well if you like to risk), Im talking about holding her hand or get physically close to her to see her reaction.
If she really likes you she wont mind it and if she dont like you well, you didnt risk anything anyway, you only had your answer.
i remember i had met a chick like that a while back ago, when i started in the seduction community.Who Dares Win said:
i got the same advice as you gave him, but never helped me though.
because she's too friendly she's ok for kino, hug, holding hand. it's a normal thing for her, and she even initiate that.
until today i have a friend who's like that. even if we are just friend she's holdng my hanfd from time to time, hungging me, touching me a lot.
but she's doing it with anyone, so either she likes c0ck or she is like that.
i dunno though if it's due to culture issues.
i'm interested on this post, i'll follow it because i'd like to know the answer
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That indication I gave him works in most of the cases to filter interested girls from attention wh0res, of course there is no ultimate answer as in cases similar to yours.TheMale said:
In that case theres no other choice than take a risk and go for the kiss.
And well if shes fine with getting kissed all the time and does it with everybody theres a good chance she would be dtf as well...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
OP you ask a great question. It's really difficult with women like that. What you need to do is go more sexual/romantic on her and see how she reacts. That is, don't just put your hand on her shoulder or hold her hand, but stroke her hair, put your hand on her waist, slap her playfully on the ass, get your full bodies close together, etc.
I'm dealing with a girl like that right now. If she's "just friendly" she will shy away when you get sexier, but if she's DTF she won't. You do have to risk it or you'll just keep orbiting her, wondering. And if you don't do it soon it will get to the point where it gets harder and harder for you to do it at all, and then you've essentially LJBFed yourself even if she was interested.
I'm dealing with a girl like that right now. If she's "just friendly" she will shy away when you get sexier, but if she's DTF she won't. You do have to risk it or you'll just keep orbiting her, wondering. And if you don't do it soon it will get to the point where it gets harder and harder for you to do it at all, and then you've essentially LJBFed yourself even if she was interested.