I hung out with this girl who just told me that shes a virgin. The first 2 times we chilled, she made out with me a whole lot, and almost ****ed, but i havent gotten her completely naked yet. SHe seems like a real freak, but when i tried to take off her pants, she stopped me and said that she wants to do it the right way by being in a relationship first, and that shes a virgin. She likes me a lot , and I really wanna hit this. What would you guys do
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do you deal with virgins
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To answer that question, you should specify more details.
How long have you been together for? How old are you? How old is she?
I suppose it all comes down to how old each of you are and how long you have been together. You need to build up SOME trust before she let's you in her pants.
How long have you been together for? How old are you? How old is she?
I suppose it all comes down to how old each of you are and how long you have been together. You need to build up SOME trust before she let's you in her pants.
I'm not with her, and dont really want to be her bf. I just met her last week. I'm 22 and shes 19. I feel like i'm almost there because she initiates a lot of the sexual stuff and the kissing, and she gets real horny around me. I dont have my own place, so everything has been in the movies and in my car. It seemed like i almost had it in the car, but then she gave me an objection that we aren't together. HOw do you deal with this objection
Someone Much cooler
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take her out to a club, chill, drink, relax, your 22 take a few bucks tell her you don't wanna drive home and get a hotel. That should do it!
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When overcoming objections, you must first get the truth. She wants to be in a relationship may be the truth, but that could be just an excuse to cover the real truth.
Perhaps she's scared. Maybe she has heard that it hurts the first time. Maybe there is some underlying guilt.
So, first determine the Real truth, then move to the next step: The Nudge
Webster defines nudge as a gentle push. You can nudge her in a direction she wants to go anyway. If you nudge her in a direction she doesn't want to go your pushing. Then you get resistance.
My suggestion.
Remain very low pressure. Sell her on the idea of taking it a little further, slowly.
Make out this time. Move to her breasts next time, etc. until you can perform oral sex on her. This should be great cause no one else has been there yet.
Your final move will be to execute the Indirect Nudge.
You must convince her to let you do something to her that may seem like you are going to have sex, but your really not. Basically, you tell her that you want to perform another form of stimulation on her. That is, with a condom on you are going to rub your don johnson back and forth along the OUTSIDE of her vagina. Assure her that you have no intention of putting it in. You just want her to experience the sensation.
After rubbing it here for a while you will notice her start to squirm a little. She may even try ti pull you inside her. Dont go, yet. The idea is to make her fight for it. Then she is responsible for the decision.
If she does not attempt to pull you in to her, you can enter in maybe a quarter inch. See how she reacts. I few moments later give her another quarter inch, so she remains comfortable. Repeat until you are all the way in.
This technique will also help her with the initial pain of being devirginized.
You may even consider explaining this approach to her so she knows you will not hurt her.
You make the trust sale
This information has been partly paraphrased from my ebook: SUpersize Your Sex Life. In the book is provided detailed instructions for handling every objection situation.
Perhaps she's scared. Maybe she has heard that it hurts the first time. Maybe there is some underlying guilt.
So, first determine the Real truth, then move to the next step: The Nudge
Webster defines nudge as a gentle push. You can nudge her in a direction she wants to go anyway. If you nudge her in a direction she doesn't want to go your pushing. Then you get resistance.
My suggestion.
Remain very low pressure. Sell her on the idea of taking it a little further, slowly.
Make out this time. Move to her breasts next time, etc. until you can perform oral sex on her. This should be great cause no one else has been there yet.
Your final move will be to execute the Indirect Nudge.
You must convince her to let you do something to her that may seem like you are going to have sex, but your really not. Basically, you tell her that you want to perform another form of stimulation on her. That is, with a condom on you are going to rub your don johnson back and forth along the OUTSIDE of her vagina. Assure her that you have no intention of putting it in. You just want her to experience the sensation.
After rubbing it here for a while you will notice her start to squirm a little. She may even try ti pull you inside her. Dont go, yet. The idea is to make her fight for it. Then she is responsible for the decision.
If she does not attempt to pull you in to her, you can enter in maybe a quarter inch. See how she reacts. I few moments later give her another quarter inch, so she remains comfortable. Repeat until you are all the way in.
This technique will also help her with the initial pain of being devirginized.
You may even consider explaining this approach to her so she knows you will not hurt her.
You make the trust sale
This information has been partly paraphrased from my ebook: SUpersize Your Sex Life. In the book is provided detailed instructions for handling every objection situation.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.