How do you deal with this?

[Gawn]

I'm a Marine who is taking a women's studies course who posted a while ago, but I forgot the password so I made a new account.

My ex girlfriend decided that she wanted to try and throw boiling oil at me after sitting there and berating/hitting on me for like half an hour, it hit, and I was so pissed off that I punched her in the face and broke her nose. I called her a psycho and told her to GTFO and never come back. If that ***** ever tries to enter my life again, I'll kill her. She knows this as well, so she always gives me a wide berth every time we cross paths. Anyway, the burns weren't too bad, there was a bunch of blistering and all that, but once the skin peeled off it was healthy and pink underneath. I'm lucky I had a long sleeve shirt on at the time.

Anyway, in that womens studies class, the retarded professor (who I now have absolutely no respect for) decided to bring up the issue of domestic violence and how it's impossible for a woman to ever be abusive of her partner. She was also whining about how unfair all the double standards against women are in America. This really pissed me off, so I got up, took off my shirt, and showed the class the huge ass patch of skin peeling off my chest and arm. I told them exactly what happened. The attitude I got was really really ****ing weird. Like, they just sat there saying I probably deserved it. I tried pointing out the retarded double standard they were following, but they ignored it. They said I was wrong for punching my ex and fighting back.

GOD DAMN IT I ****ING HATE THIS ****. But there's only a few more weeks to go. Sorry about that. I know this isn't a blog. But god damn this **** makes me so mad. Like, I really want to go back to Afghanistan because it seems so much simpler over there. You guys really have no idea how nice it is to just to be able to shoot somebody whenever they **** with you. It really feels good. It's a better high than anything I tried before I joined.

 

[jophil28]

You only made one mistake and that was tolerating more than one short minute of a woman yelling at you.
The moment that a woman yells is the moment to evict her ass before the drama escalates to the stage that it did with you..

Too bad you can't use either rule 7.62 or 5.56 in civilian life.

 

[Jitterbug]

Sorry to hear about the injuries, mate, but what did you expect from a bunch of feminists?

Those same feminists are saying America should send more men like you over to Afghanistan to shoot their men so that their women could be feminists too. Isn't that lovely?

Why are you, a Marine, doing a women's studies course anyway?

 

[omkara]

In my experience, women are so much better at verbal subterfuge that I would not want to engage with them on that level. I have never won an emotionally charged argument with a woman, except for my ex-gf because she already respected me.

It has been documented in psychological research that the type of violence engaged in by women is usually covert and indirect. In cases where they do resort to physical violence, it is almost always personal.

I think that since women don't have the ability to physically dominate or intimidate, they have become very good at getting under your skin and annoying the s*** out of you if you engage with them on that level. And they do it to each other constantly too.

 

[new_hotness]

If it isn't obvious to you by now, I will try to make it clear. You are either:

1-incapable of coherent thought, leading you to allow someone to yell and hit you for more than say, 2 seconds, or

2-you cannot envision your life without conflict or some lesser scale drama.

Either way, these women are in no way the problem.

Your faulty thought process, which leads you to tolerate, or even be drawn to violence, is the real issue.

You need counseling immediately. Please call and make an appointment with the counseling office at your college or university where you are taking the class.

There are also anonymous help lines available for people who don't want to reveal their identity.

At the very least, find a trusted friend or perhaps family member to discuss these issues.

Good luck.

PS: Initially, I thought this was a troll post, but I went ahead and responded as if it were completely legitimate. Even if it isn't, everyone should be aware that violence is never something to be tolerated. Get help asap.

I'm a Marine who is taking a women's studies course who posted a while ago, but I forgot the password so I made a new account.

My ex girlfriend decided that she wanted to try and throw boiling oil at me after sitting there and berating/hitting on me for like half an hour, it hit, and I was so pissed off that I punched her in the face and broke her nose. I called her a psycho and told her to GTFO and never come back. If that ***** ever tries to enter my life again, I'll kill her. She knows this as well, so she always gives me a wide berth every time we cross paths. Anyway, the burns weren't too bad, there was a bunch of blistering and all that, but once the skin peeled off it was healthy and pink underneath. I'm lucky I had a long sleeve shirt on at the time.

Anyway, in that womens studies class, the retarded professor (who I now have absolutely no respect for) decided to bring up the issue of domestic violence and how it's impossible for a woman to ever be abusive of her partner. She was also whining about how unfair all the double standards against women are in America. This really pissed me off, so I got up, took off my shirt, and showed the class the huge ass patch of skin peeling off my chest and arm. I told them exactly what happened. The attitude I got was really really ****ing weird. Like, they just sat there saying I probably deserved it. I tried pointing out the retarded double standard they were following, but they ignored it. They said I was wrong for punching my ex and fighting back.

GOD DAMN IT I ****ING HATE THIS ****. But there's only a few more weeks to go. Sorry about that. I know this isn't a blog. But god damn this **** makes me so mad. Like, I really want to go back to Afghanistan because it seems so much simpler over there. You guys really have no idea how nice it is to just to be able to shoot somebody whenever they **** with you. It really feels good. It's a better high than anything I tried before I joined.

 

[Gawn]

Can you explain in detail how I tolerated or am drawn to this violence?
1. She was the one who hit me first. If I was tolerated this, I would not have kicked her out.

2. Why do I need counseling just because I am pissed off at these retarded people? They're the ones who need help. They're the ones who are incapable of incoherent thought. Explain how I am responsible for the way they think and act?

 

[amoka]

No reasonable human being, particular they one you live with, will "decide to just throw a boiling oil" on you. I am not taking the woman's side of the story but you refused to tell the whole story. In order to render a fair judgment, you must tell the whole story and nothing but the truth...