MILF's give me a hard time (no pun intended). If I try talking to them they behave as if I'm trying to rape them or treat me like a snot nosed kid. I don't know where the stereotype that older women (35 - 45) like younger **** came from because I just don't see it. The younger girls (18 - 23) need an attitude adjustment and even they still treat me better than MILFs do. I look really young, NOWHERE near 30, so that could even be working against me. Any suggestions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you deal with "mature" women?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
I DON'T deal with older women....much. They have the attitude that they run the world, it takes a few years of being on the wrong end of "pump and dump" to figure out they aren't "all that". In most cases, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
At your age, you should just put up with the **** the young ones throw out.... older women are only that.... older, all the rest of the BS they "say" is a figment of their imagination.... women usually DON'T mature mentally like men do
At your age, you should just put up with the **** the young ones throw out.... older women are only that.... older, all the rest of the BS they "say" is a figment of their imagination.... women usually DON'T mature mentally like men do
logicallefty
Moderator
Older women are good for any man who wishes to perform as a psychic because any man with any experience can figure these women out easily because they all have the same basic story:sodbuster said:
- She was abused by an ex, a relative, or both
- She has been in more LTRs than fingers on her hands, and the men were all 100% at fault and she was perfect
- She has a crummy job or none at all and it was someone else's fault
- She has at least one ex in jail and/or some ex she is scared of who might come over and hurt her now
- She obtained an order of protection on one or more exes in the past and/or had one or more ex arrested for something
- She hates Facebook but yet spends 19 hours of her 24 hour day on it
- She has some kind of online business selling some kind of sh|t, or has had one in the past. She also might think blogging is considered working.
So how many older women that you guys know did I just profile?
channingtatum
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You have to come in as a mature guy because you don't want them thinking of you as "a kid" but you can't treat them like children like you can a 22 yr old. ONCE they respect you as a mature dude, THEN treat them like a 22 yr old. Same as any other woman, you just have to do it a little differently.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
good list, but you missed "life coach"..... wanting to give you advice....
wanting to give you advice....“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.