"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you deal with "mature" women?

C-quenced

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MILF's give me a hard time (no pun intended). If I try talking to them they behave as if I'm trying to rape them or treat me like a snot nosed kid. I don't know where the stereotype that older women (35 - 45) like younger **** came from because I just don't see it. The younger girls (18 - 23) need an attitude adjustment and even they still treat me better than MILFs do. I look really young, NOWHERE near 30, so that could even be working against me. Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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I DON'T deal with older women....much. They have the attitude that they run the world, it takes a few years of being on the wrong end of "pump and dump" to figure out they aren't "all that". In most cases, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

At your age, you should just put up with the **** the young ones throw out.... older women are only that.... older, all the rest of the BS they "say" is a figment of their imagination.... women usually DON'T mature mentally like men do
 

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sodbuster said:
I DON'T deal with older women....much. They have the attitude that they run the world, it takes a few years of being on the wrong end of "pump and dump" to figure out they aren't "all that". In most cases, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

At your age, you should just put up with the **** the young ones throw out.... older women are only that.... older, all the rest of the BS they "say" is a figment of their imagination.... women usually DON'T mature mentally like men do
Older women are good for any man who wishes to perform as a psychic because any man with any experience can figure these women out easily because they all have the same basic story:

- She was abused by an ex, a relative, or both

- She has been in more LTRs than fingers on her hands, and the men were all 100% at fault and she was perfect

- She has a crummy job or none at all and it was someone else's fault

- She has at least one ex in jail and/or some ex she is scared of who might come over and hurt her now

- She obtained an order of protection on one or more exes in the past and/or had one or more ex arrested for something

- She hates Facebook but yet spends 19 hours of her 24 hour day on it

- She has some kind of online business selling some kind of sh|t, or has had one in the past. She also might think blogging is considered working.


So how many older women that you guys know did I just profile? :D
 

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You have to come in as a mature guy because you don't want them thinking of you as "a kid" but you can't treat them like children like you can a 22 yr old. ONCE they respect you as a mature dude, THEN treat them like a 22 yr old. Same as any other woman, you just have to do it a little differently.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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