"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you deal with haters and c#ckblocks?

Onlyliveonce

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In a work setting? Everybody is in each others business. I set up a date the other day and someone overheard our conversation. This guy has been drooling over this woman for a while and has been evedropping on our conversations. Very tough place to get privacy, too many people. He was talking with some co-workers present and chided me about getting dates on work time. I played it cool and spoke to him in private, told him it's my personal business. I feel like I'm back in high school. Grown ass men getting jealous.:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nutz

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Don't dip your pen in company ink. I'm speaking from experience here. Again, do not date women from work. Random hookups/flings after an office happy hour is one thing, but don't actually date. Gets weird if things don't work out.
 
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