"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Onlyliveonce

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In a work setting? Everybody is in each others business. I set up a date the other day and someone overheard our conversation. This guy has been drooling over this woman for a while and has been evedropping on our conversations. Very tough place to get privacy, too many people. He was talking with some co-workers present and chided me about getting dates on work time. I played it cool and spoke to him in private, told him it's my personal business. I feel like I'm back in high school. Grown ass men getting jealous.:confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nutz

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Don't dip your pen in company ink. I'm speaking from experience here. Again, do not date women from work. Random hookups/flings after an office happy hour is one thing, but don't actually date. Gets weird if things don't work out.
 
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