"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you deal with envious people?

ThatOneDude

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How do you deal with younger people that envy your physique and socially undermine you with women and do their best to get women to lose confidence in you? I'd love to get away from them but it's hard when you're stuck with them at work. I don't want to lose my job but I feel like attacking back. And it is so easy to punk someone out that's way smaller than you. I don't care who's hooking up but I wish they could run their game without saying my name. Is it an instinctual emotional response to crush a rival that's trying to get a woman to doubt you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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crazyboy

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People are going talk about you whether your doing bad or good. But women know that men who constantly bash other men are often insecure with themselves. So you dont even dont have to worry about it. Ignore them and handle your business the more they drop your name. The more value you gain. Any publicy is good publicy even when its bad.
 
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