"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you deal with depression?

originaldj

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Long story short, the girl I had a oneitis for has started dating my best friend.

I don't care who you are, if you are a teenager you go through depression once in a while. Luckily it is very rare for me and the depression from this specific event is already gone.

I am just curious as to how you guys deal with it. Personally I just start doing something becasue I usually only get depressed when I am bores. So I will usuaully jus get together with a friend or go to the gym.

What are your tricks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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flippinfreak

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Stop thinking for myself?

I go off and I confront people...

Get their minds to work for me... ANYTHING they say, is better than thinking it for myself.

"talk... about anything. I don't care if it is interesting or not. I don't want to be alone with my thoughts"
 

Mission

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I listen to music, go to the bar with good friends, go to the clubs, talk to girls, play guitar, I remind myself that no matter how bad I think I have it, I KNOW there are people who are more upset than me, and that always helps.

--Mission
 

shydude

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I also lsiten to music, MUSIC IS MY LIFE!! I play piano, play guitar, sing. I really dont care about outside world when i am outside of it, I just focus on my life, I remember that there is bright future in front of me, i know that no one can stop my dreams, and I live my dreams. When I need something i get it.
 

DogFashionDisco

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I watch fight club. :)

And get in the mindset that there are things out there that are far more thrilling and better than girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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