"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you create emotionally stimulating conversation?

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How can I create emotionally stimulating conversation with females?
Or turn normal conversation into emotionally stimulating conversation?

I think I understand the concept but not entirely sure, so examples would be great. :)
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I know you have certain beliefs, opinions, and that is all you need for conversations. You were raised or taught to think that a good conversation with a woman is agreeing with everything she said and everything going smooth, but that will only make you like every guy out there she has talked to (boring). Instead what you should be doing is being as opinionated as possible, disagreeing with her often, making statements, being a little controversial, saying "i believe that..." etc.

don't nod your head in agreement, instead if she says something you don't really agree with rather than saying "yes i agree you're so right" just to please her and make you seem compatible to her, say "i disagree with you, I believe that..." etc etc. Disagree with women as much as possible and state your own beliefs. Look for situations where you can say "i disagree with you" and state your belief and opinion. Even if you agree with everything she is saying just find any little thing and STATE THAT YOU DISAGREE ON SOMETHING JUST TO SET YOU APART FROM THE OTHER GUYS! You will be seen as a challenge and become attractive to them, as a man with his own beliefs and principles, as a man with a spine rather than the boring afcs she talks to that agree with everything she says. Being opinionated is the simplest way to make you seem like a passionate/interesting guy, passionate for your beliefs and principles. Women are attracted to guys that stand for something and have their own beliefs.

Next time you have a conversation with a girl remember what i told you. Find situations in the conversations to disagree with her and do it! do it often, state your beliefs and opinions without fear of not "being compatible." You will make yourself an interesting/attractive guy and she will respect you. Saying "I disagree, I believe that..." (then stating your opinion) this should be part of your daily vocabulary with women! It might take some time to getting used to talking to women in the way i described (talking to women like a real man) but you will be better off in the end as women become become attracted to you as a guy with personality, his own opinions and beliefs.
 
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Yeah,I agree with F283000. Disagreeing with a girl can stir her in her emotions. In addition to this,another thing you can do which is HIGHLY effective,is to be "experiencing the emotion YOURSELF while you're talking to the girl. Or to put it in plain english,if you want her to feel happy,then YOU BE HAPPY while you're talking to her. If you want her to feel excitement,then YOU BE EXCITED while you're talking to her. Since women are emotional,she'll easily sense the emotion coming from you,then she'll feel it too. Bascially just send out from yourself whatever it is that you want from her. You actually have to possess and ALREADY HAVE within yourself whatever it is you want from the girl. You can't speak her like a professor speaking to his class in a dull,monotone voice/tone and expect her to feel feelings/emotion.
 

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What works also is to add a situation where let her think you agree.. then slowly let her realise all along it was a joke and your just teasing her. High expectations.. then dump it with a joke. This adds a cycle of emotions. Suprise, suspicion, pissed, enjoyment, crack up laughing. The more emotions the better.
 
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