"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you create attraction

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Derek Flint said:
I couldn't disagree more with what you stated above which I bolded.

Lowering someone's value to raise your own value is about as AFC as it gets.

People who actually are "High Value" don't need to demonstrate it, or "Neg" or anything else.

They can demonstrate High Value without saying a word.

People with Low Value tend to resort to tricks and tactics and "Negs" and other gimmicks to falsely inflate their value.
I should have worded that is A way that you CAN create attraction which the OP was asking "how do you create attraction". But in a fun and playful way is afc? I didn't say bash her till she feels like sh!t? .....
So all the techniques on this site are worthless and you don't need them because you're high value? Then what are you doing on this site if you have such high value and all you need to do is DHV a girl w/o saying a word to her? You expect a guy that may not be attractive to that HB10 initally, to just act high value without her even seeing it and him demonstrating it? This site is filled with tactics and techniques, neg's, push and pull, which can work to create attraction. What's the point if you don't convey that value for her to recognize? You can't just walk past a HB10 and just expect her to see your value all the time, there is a reason why you use negs on HB10's and use less tactics on HB1-3's..so then I guess everyone here is low value, because they aren't DHV'ing a girl w/o saying a word?......
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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