"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you come off as sexual

coolness89

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This has been on my mind for a while.
Quick facts: I'm a college/uni student. I know tons of girls, and I do come off as ****y/confident. I've a tendency of saying that im good looking etc., showing that I'm not afraid of my looks, I dress well, and dress to impress ;)

ANyways, I wanna go up another level, bring a bit of sexualness into my game as well. Keep in mind, its not for one girl..I behave the same for all.

I hope I have asked my question clearly. If you need me to clarify just let me know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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romangod

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Forget to do up your fly after you take a piss and then approach the girls you want with your pecker hanging out.


Cheers!
 

coolness89

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hahah..good one.

K lemme make it more clearer.
For example: grabbing a girl by her waist, or making sexual connotations to her...i have seen guys flirt with girls, but then miss out doing this.
 

EvilAgenda

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LMAO @ romangod's post

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JAMES BOND <--- his facial expressions and body language.

*raise one eyebrow* + *smirk* and say something invitingly sexual like...

"do you always get what you want?"
OR
"well then,,can you think of a reason why we can't have a drink afterwards?"
(just remember to say it in the correct situation)
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and Kino stuff. But it sounds to me like you are doing just great as it is! ;)
 

HeMan

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through sexual energy - ie, strong body language, non stop flirting, teasing, being comfortable touching girls
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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