"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how do you coax girls into having a 3some?

SlyD4rK

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how do you coax girls into having a 3some? i honestly have no clue how to go about this...i have met a few girls that were bi- butey are rare..and usaully really wierd
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by SlyD4rK
how do you coax girls into having a 3some? i honestly have no clue how to go about this...i have met a few girls that were bi- butey are rare..and usaully really wierd
Talking from experience,

1. There is no way that this can be planned, it has to be entirely 'in the moment'.

2. Ussually helps if the girls are sluts and they are friends, this way they are willing to experiment.

3. It is important that you have no emotional connection with either one of them, they are not likely to want to share you.

4. Make them both incredibly horny and make sure your the only outlet they have to show it ;)

5. Isolation, isolation, isolation, ussually happens at a party and the 3 of you all go back to someones house.
 

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well....i'm kinda seeing one girl that is really cool and doesnt seem to mind that i have been messing around with other girls...but she is emotionally attached...i dont think this would work...but what have i got to lose? your thoughts?

As for the sour of the moment thing...that DOES seem the most likely to happen
 

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from what ive heard you get one into the idea by asking her (like shes a friend or something) and then use social proof on the other one
 

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You shouldn't have to 'coax' them...

The man is the third party in a threesome... in truth, and is only there so women can have an excuse to **** each other.

Just be honest, and talk to the girl about it, if she's as 'cool' as you say she is, there is a possibility that she likes women. If she does, have her pick one, and let the good times roll... :cool:

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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