"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you close the space between you chest?

ABGPlayer

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how do you? and how can you build your chest at the same time if oyu only have 2 dumb bells at home and no membership to a gym
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drex

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Originally posted by ABGPlayer
how do you? and how can you build your chest at the same time if oyu only have 2 dumb bells at home and no membership to a gym
To answer your first question - You just need to bulk up. Eventually (with a good diet and workout routine) your pecs will develope a plate-look and this "space" will fill in.

And to your second question - Get a membership to a gym; you're not going to get huge with 1 set of dumbells and some push-ups.
 

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Drex what are you saying man, are you talking about literally closing the space or just making it appear that it's closed up.

literally you cannot do anything about it, that's your genetics and that's how you were born.

when Drex says bulking up he meant (i hope) that the bulk you put on your pectorials will make it look like your chest has less of a separation.

and for the second question:
well you can either do dumbell presses or you can do dumbell flies. but if you want bulk then the dumbells better be heavy.
 

DJ Girevik

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If you want a cheap way to build your chest, load weights into a backpack and do pushups. Or if you're more advanced, dips.
 
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