Ignoring women
In my personal experiences, ignoring women can either be very beneficial or very detrimental.
I will explain both sides.
How ignoring women can be detrimental
Some guys think that women like a guy who doesn't pay her any attention and is too much of a boss to even talk to the girl. Well, this sometimes works and sometimes doesn't. What you are doing in this situation is betting your odds on the women eventually approaching YOU, because you ignored her. Gambling on the prospect that your ignorance of her has spiked her interest and she will turn that spiked interest into her coming and talking to you.
For one) this will only work if you have OTHER GIRLS surrounding you.
For two) not all girls will approach you, even if they are interested
To many guys think that ignorance of women is a good tactic so they utilize it in their arsenal of skills. Some times even growing a dependence on it. You see these guys all the time at clubs. They post up against the wall and hope that the girls will come to them because the are employing the ignorance tactic. Well, i can assure you, the guy talking to EVERY girl in the club is going to end up with much better odds.
Also, a lot of girls wont approach a guy. So if you start out with ignoring as your initial approach to picking up girls then you are going to be vastly disappointed because not very many girls will come to you, and the ones that do, how ever many that may be, ARE NOT the ones YOU are choosing. They are just the ones that have been RECEPTIVE to your ignorance tactic. And the whole point of being a DJ is being able to CHOOSE which girls YOU want.
Plus you are missing massive opportunities. How many of those girls are ACTUALLY interested in you but too shy to approach you? If you just ignore them, then you wont get the opportunity to add them to your arsenal. Its a numbers game. Talk to as many girls as possible, don't wait for them to come to you.
I find that straight up approaching EVERY GIRL that YOU like is a FAR better way to attract girls. And at least you get to CHOOSE who you want as a plate.
How ignoring a woman can make her hamster wheel spin
They only time I EVER use ignorance of women as a tactic is AFTER I have slept with them. NEVER before.
This is because you have already built up her interest to a high point. To the point of sleeping with her. After you sleep with her she WILL initiate contact, no doubt, so its a sure bet. If you want to take her interest level to the NEXT tier then ignoring her and spinning other plates will have that added benefit and work wonders. But ONLY if you do it properly.
Steps:
After you sleep with her, make sure that you are a little more intimate then usual. Make her feel special. Then go ghost for 4-5 days. Let her blow up your phone. Dont say a fvcking word. Let her hamster wheel spin. Let her imagination GO CRAZY. After, shoot her a text saying lets meet up. If she asks you what you were doing be VAUGE as sh1t.
"I was busy with some things girl"
"oh you know secret agent sh1t"
All with a ****y smile.
Trust me her lady parts will tingle.
Conclusion
I would personally never ignore a girl that was giving me
"the fvck eyes" in a salon. Because think about it. Did you get her number by ignoring her? no. Did you end up sleeping with her by ignoring her? absolutely not. Do you even know her name? nope. Its missed opportunities. And a man never misses an opportunity. ESPECIALLY if its staring him right in the face.
Could have approached her, got the number, took her to grab coffee or whatever, and 2-3 dates in crushed it.
If you are going to use the ignore tactic, use it AFTER sex. It will work wonders in shifting that hamster wheel to full throttle.
