"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do you call a chick on catty behavior?

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starfishandcoffee

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One I saw the other day (still going VERY well as of now) let a very biting comment slip about a guy that she'd been chasing and didn't want her. I said "wow, that's not catty at all", she got very defensive, and I managed to steer the subject onto something else (I don't like apologizing if I don't think I have to).

We all know the ladies hate a pushover and love pursuing a guy who seems like a challenge, but how do you call a chick on something like this without crossing the line into lecturing her? Nobody likes to be lectured, as that's almost always a character attack. KINDA kills the sexual tension.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I say something like "ugghh" or "stop it" when women annoy me, then I direct my attention somewhere else. In most cases, the less you respond to their bs, the better. When it's directed at you, you show them their sh!t doesn't bother you and it isn't scoring them any points either.
 
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This falls under smooth moves category. You have to make a joke that let's her know that what she did was a bit silly and at the same time make her smile. Hard to do.
 
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