how do you call a chick on catty behavior?

[starfishandcoffee]

One I saw the other day (still going VERY well as of now) let a very biting comment slip about a guy that she'd been chasing and didn't want her. I said "wow, that's not catty at all", she got very defensive, and I managed to steer the subject onto something else (I don't like apologizing if I don't think I have to).

We all know the ladies hate a pushover and love pursuing a guy who seems like a challenge, but how do you call a chick on something like this without crossing the line into lecturing her? Nobody likes to be lectured, as that's almost always a character attack. KINDA kills the sexual tension.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

I say something like "ugghh" or "stop it" when women annoy me, then I direct my attention somewhere else. In most cases, the less you respond to their bs, the better. When it's directed at you, you show them their sh!t doesn't bother you and it isn't scoring them any points either.

 

[trajhenkhet02]

This falls under smooth moves category. You have to make a joke that let's her know that what she did was a bit silly and at the same time make her smile. Hard to do.