Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you build sexual attraction?

thevilittletroll

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I’ve been having a problem lately with the women I’m meeting. I have no problems cold approaching them, getting their phone #’s, texting and banter. They all like me and even initiate hanging out with me. The problem is that I have about 20 girls phone #’s in my phone and none of them want to **** me or are sexually attracted. It’s kinda cool that I’m seen hanging out with 5-10 hot chicks at the bar every weekend, but I’m trying to get laid here. This is how I figured it out. If I would invite them over to my house to have dinner with me they always flake. (I’m guessing they know it’s a date) If I invite them out to the bar they never flake. (I’m guessing there’s no pressure, in public, just as friends) All we do is hang out and have a good time, it never gets physical. The only escalation I can get is high 5’s, hugs, and an occasional kiss on the cheek. What can I do different from the beginning of the cold approach to increase the sexual attraction? Or am I not getting any attraction at all? How can I fix this problem. I’m getting frustrated!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slick Rick-NZ

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Sexual attration is usually caused by sexual tension as what we usually refer to it as. Probly one of the only other ways a chick would be sexually attracted would be if you were gorgious six pack tanned oiled up with a huge D**k ect but not as easily as a male towards a female. But we don't focus on that. I suggest you do some research and youtube how to buils sexual tension and see what you get. Tension can be built by jokes inuendos and physical movment body language. I will get back to you on this subject.
I hope some other guys add to this.
Congradulations, you sound like you have your approach game sorted, you are one step ahead of some of us on here.
Slick..
 

Tortendieb

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Slick Rick-NZ said:
Probly one of the only other ways a chick would be sexually attracted would be if you were gorgious six pack tanned oiled up with a huge D**k ect
I have a huge **** but telling them usually gets me a slap :D
 

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Sexual jokes...I try to incorporate sex into the conversation if I really want to bag a girl. Sometimes they mention it first, which shows me that they're REALLY interested. That's one idea.

Another idea is to physically escalate. Handholding, LONG hugs, kisses.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slick Rick-NZ

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Tortendieb said:
I have a huge **** but telling them usually gets me a slap :D
Hahaha whata larf. Perhaps you should buy them dinner first lol.
Sorry thevilittletroll havn't hada chance to pull up some stuff for you yet.
Slick..
 

irocknike23

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work out
women love muscles, seeing a dude with nice arms and pecks to a women is like us seeing a woman with a nice rack and a small waist and a perfect ass-sexual attraction
 

thevilittletroll

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irocknike23 said:
work out
women love muscles, seeing a dude with nice arms and pecks to a women is like us seeing a woman with a nice rack and a small waist and a perfect ass-sexual attraction
thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You must talk about sex. Very few times will the girl initiate it.
 

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thevilittletroll said:
thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
Actually mate what he's saying is partly true, also use jokes and kino to create sexual tension as well. Everyone contributes tips differently, don't criticize people for trying to help you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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irocknike23

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thevilittletroll said:
thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
you asked what builds sexual attraction so i answered.

if your built, some girls will want to fvuck the **** out of you before you guys even talk to each other
 
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