"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thevilittletroll

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I’ve been having a problem lately with the women I’m meeting. I have no problems cold approaching them, getting their phone #’s, texting and banter. They all like me and even initiate hanging out with me. The problem is that I have about 20 girls phone #’s in my phone and none of them want to **** me or are sexually attracted. It’s kinda cool that I’m seen hanging out with 5-10 hot chicks at the bar every weekend, but I’m trying to get laid here. This is how I figured it out. If I would invite them over to my house to have dinner with me they always flake. (I’m guessing they know it’s a date) If I invite them out to the bar they never flake. (I’m guessing there’s no pressure, in public, just as friends) All we do is hang out and have a good time, it never gets physical. The only escalation I can get is high 5’s, hugs, and an occasional kiss on the cheek. What can I do different from the beginning of the cold approach to increase the sexual attraction? Or am I not getting any attraction at all? How can I fix this problem. I’m getting frustrated!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sexual attration is usually caused by sexual tension as what we usually refer to it as. Probly one of the only other ways a chick would be sexually attracted would be if you were gorgious six pack tanned oiled up with a huge D**k ect but not as easily as a male towards a female. But we don't focus on that. I suggest you do some research and youtube how to buils sexual tension and see what you get. Tension can be built by jokes inuendos and physical movment body language. I will get back to you on this subject.
I hope some other guys add to this.
Congradulations, you sound like you have your approach game sorted, you are one step ahead of some of us on here.
Slick..
 
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Tortendieb

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Slick Rick-NZ said:
Probly one of the only other ways a chick would be sexually attracted would be if you were gorgious six pack tanned oiled up with a huge D**k ect
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I have a huge **** but telling them usually gets me a slap :D
 
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Sexual jokes...I try to incorporate sex into the conversation if I really want to bag a girl. Sometimes they mention it first, which shows me that they're REALLY interested. That's one idea.

Another idea is to physically escalate. Handholding, LONG hugs, kisses.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slick Rick-NZ

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Tortendieb said:
I have a huge **** but telling them usually gets me a slap :D
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Hahaha whata larf. Perhaps you should buy them dinner first lol.
Sorry thevilittletroll havn't hada chance to pull up some stuff for you yet.
Slick..
 
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work out
women love muscles, seeing a dude with nice arms and pecks to a women is like us seeing a woman with a nice rack and a small waist and a perfect ass-sexual attraction
 
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thevilittletroll

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irocknike23 said:
work out
women love muscles, seeing a dude with nice arms and pecks to a women is like us seeing a woman with a nice rack and a small waist and a perfect ass-sexual attraction
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thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
 
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You must talk about sex. Very few times will the girl initiate it.
 
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thevilittletroll said:
thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
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Actually mate what he's saying is partly true, also use jokes and kino to create sexual tension as well. Everyone contributes tips differently, don't criticize people for trying to help you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thevilittletroll said:
thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
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you asked what builds sexual attraction so i answered.

if your built, some girls will want to fvuck the **** out of you before you guys even talk to each other
 
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