"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you break attachment...?

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Guys im having trouble breaking the attachment i have for my ex (recently broke up), its driving me crazy. Every thing i do shes on my head! I even look at my phone every now and then to see if shes sent me a text. (weird i know)

It'll probably take me a good 6 months to get over her, i just want to speed up the process. I hate that afc feeling inside of me right now.

What do i need to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-You need to meet some new people.
-Keep things that reminds you of her away from sight.
-Get involved in some activity.
-Get breathless in a workout. (Tends to clear your mind.)
 
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Thanks Nivre ... Good thing is that im starting uni soon :up:
 
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Sure. yeah i'm pretty sure you'll meet some new chicks and heh and it'll repeat all over again.

Friends on the other hand helps you forget about her too. Just have fun and slowly. you'll move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Roy said:
Anymore advice guys...?
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Nivre said it. Tou have to realise there are more women out, go to a place where you'll guaranteed to see and hopefully meet other attractive ladies.

Something i use on lap dancers:

Say you just got out of a long term relationship, feeling a bit hurt.... when they ask why you came into said club.... just be vague and that you sorta wandered in. Then start discussing feelings, emotional security, her past relationships and see where it goes.
 
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Yeah couldn't be easier than what the guys above me said. However if you're finding it tough, one thing I like doing is removing/deleting any reminder of an ex, whether it be photos of her, her number saved on your phone, or a piece of clothing left at your place. That does help you break attachment, as does reminders that a real Don Juan gets on with life, and has too much on his plate to mope over an ex. You're starting uni now, a completely different ball game to high school, you'll be doing a course you're interested in hopefully, getting involved in clubs and societies, sports etc, and meeting new people. Focus on the change of environment and people and the past will remain where it belongs - behind you.
 
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