"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you become everyone's favorite?

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Rint

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How do i be liked by everyone alot? Like people will respect me and i can talk to about anyone and get respect I would like and they'll b nice and polite?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being liked by everyone is totaly different to being respected.

I preffer respect, being liked annoys me, cus you usaully get like by people who "bug" into your personal time.

try being respected, you get more a s s
 
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Smile, be nice to people, like say hey hows it goin, hows ur ebrother doin now, i havnt seen him in like 6 years! Jus randomly talk to people who u know, ask gurls if there okay, even if they seem ok, jus to put over that ure caring, but like dont be a *****, an get good at sports!
 
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I really don't think you can become EVERYONE'S favorite, there are always going to be people who don't like you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not really, I've got a friend who is liked throughout the school. Though he's Nice Guy who has never had a gf.
 
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Originally posted by JayUK
Smile, be nice to people, like say hey hows it goin, hows ur ebrother doin now, i havnt seen him in like 6 years! Jus randomly talk to people who u know, ask gurls if there okay, even if they seem ok, jus to put over that ure caring, but like dont be a *****, an get good at sports!
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Become good at music!
 
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