How do you be more choosy?

[RedPill]

RedPill,

I think that was meant to be a shot against Nebraska. Trouble is, I absolutely agree with you! I went to Ann Arbor Michigan last summer (still in midwest) but man that place was like Vegas! I've never seen that much hot young tail walking around.....nice

Ann Arbor has hot b1tches because it's an affluent college town. It's not your prototype Midwestern city. But yes we are in agreement, the Midwest on the whole has the highest per capita incidence of cornfed women grazing in the aisles of Sam's Club.

EDIT: And really it's all about the margins. It's not the fact there are no hot chicks here, just that healthy looking ones (and not healthy as in 'full-bodied') are such a rarity.

 

[Vulpine]

How do you be more choosy?

Take a trip outside of Nebraska, and the Midwest in general. When you return, your standards will be raised significantly. Those pale, sickly looking, extra-padded HB7s you see everywhere will rightfully look like 2s again, and order will be restored in the jungle.

*sigh*

*offers weak high five*

This, though seemingly shallow and completely looks/body based, is VERY good advice: Travel.

When I say travel, I mean, take a goofy road trip or go over seas and wander. Make half the point of the trip just to see people.

I'll never forget a wedding I had to go to in southern Illinois... I got back on the interstate Sunday morning to head home; instead of going north to go home, I went south.

HB: "Vulpine... um... where are you going?"
V: "To get some lunch."
HB: "Uh, ok, but... we are almost to KENTUCKY!"
V: "mmm... c h i c k e n." **
HB: *LOL* "KFC?"
V: "THE REAL DEAL!"

We ate KFC at store #3 (man, that was some damn good chicken, btw).

The point is, anything can be an excuse to travel. It's odd how little people stateside actually move around. We can roam around for thousands of miles without a passport... and don't.

Anyway, the point is, there is the grain belt, the bible belt, the sun belt... the midwest is the "loosened belt". Get away and see what hotties are: south, west, east... doesn't matter. No, watching baywatch doesn't count.

The first time I laid down game on the west coast, I remember how much more friendly women on the west coast were. I was shocked: not only were midwest women fugly/busted, they had crappy attitudes to boot?!? I realized that many midewest 6's carried themselves around like 10.5's, and it seriously irritated me when I got back.

Over time, I made it to the southwest, the south, and further north into Canada. I can go on and on about peripheral benefits of travel, but the experiences made a huge impact on my "dating" philosophies.

Standards were raised, and I was certainly more "choosy".

To really get a change of attitude, relocate for a year or two.

 

[Sir Drinksalot]

This woman is a garden-variety sl*ut, she always was and she always will be.

Your ego is in the toilet now, if you want to flush it entirely, get into a relationship and try to de-sl*ut her. You'll never be able to. She is what she is.

This kind of woman is useful if you're willing to bang her and not care who else she's banging. It's a lot like using a public toilet. Just do your business, get out, and don't worry about who came before or after you.

Using toilet paper to wipe off a former patron's fluids is entirely appropriate.

It doesn't sound like you're ready for that kind of arrangement.

 

[d9930380]

You've been interested in her from the start, she tried to get you to make a move, you refused her, she "said" she slept with someone else and now you think she's a slut again. She might have been in the past but i'm guessing you won't have been friends with her for so long if she's been banging other guys. Also she probably didn't even sleep with someone else, she just wanted to hurt you because of your rejection of her.

Maybe I'm wrong, maybe everything you've said is true but if what I'm saying is true then go for it and put her past before you out of your head. If she really is still a slut, don't try to change her.

 

[afrojiggles]

dont be too choosy lest u wanna her to tell u who macked her to ur disgusting face,lol

 

[Ever onward]

Guys thanks for the good advice! Traveling, having other options ect are great suggestions to help me raise my standards. A few other guys had some comments I want to address:

This woman is a garden-variety sl*ut, she always was and she always will be.

Your ego is in the toilet now, if you want to flush it entirely, get into a relationship and try to de-sl*ut her. You'll never be able to. She is what she is.

I have to admit you are right. She is a slut. Women are sexual creatures. I'm just not ready for such an arrangement as you say.

You've been interested in her from the start, she tried to get you to make a move, you refused her, she "said" she slept with someone else and now you think she's a slut again. She might have been in the past but i'm guessing you won't have been friends with her for so long if she's been banging other guys. Also she probably didn't even sleep with someone else, she just wanted to hurt you because of your rejection of her.

I haven't been interested in her from the beginning. Sure I thought she was hot but I didn't think I would ever have a shot with her. I figured it was just best to keep her as a friend and not have an agenda.

I didn't reject her. I was receptive to her flirting right up until she went out on Friday. I'm pretty sure she actually did sleep with another guy. Her interest level in me is so low that she would never try to make me jealous. She seemed surprised and a little sorry for me when she found out I was hurt by her actions.

I have always thought she was a slut. It was only in the last month or two that she and I have gotten closer and I thought I might have a chance with her. She hasn't been sleeping around during this time as she has had a bit of a dry spell. That is why she started flirting with me in the first place. She has changed her view of me as someone who is a sexual person but she doesn't like me enough to want a relationship. I have gathered that much from conversations since she slept with that other guy. My problem is I overlooked the things I didn't like about her in hopes that this previously off limits girl would hook up with me and change her ways. She was who she was from the start and it was my fault for hoping she would change.

dont be too choosy lest u wanna her to tell u who macked her to ur disgusting face,lol

Did you just call my face disgusting? lol, that depends if I'm wearing my make up or not. Anyway, I don't care if I find out who it is. I need to Next this girl in a big way.

 

[d9930380]

"Keep her as a friend" - I don't want to sound like an ******* but the only girls guys keep as a friend are hot ones that they think they will intially get rejected by and therefore by becoming there friend they think they have a chance. I'm not having a go, it does actually work in a lot of cases but this is an anonymous internet forum so lets be honest and call it for what it is.

Her interest level in you isn't low, she woldn't have brought it up otherwise and you did reject her by not taking the bait.

Girls don't go through a dry spell that isn't by choice. It's not the same as guys. A girl can get a **** every night she is out if she wants. She probably wanted you, you didn't do anything therefore she made the move, you again didn't do anything. She made you jealous, hoping you would step up to the plate. You got pissed off and thought of her as a slut. That's what happened!

Well maybe, I can't be certain but that's what it sounds like. BTW - I'm maybe projecting because it sounds exactly like a situation i was in or maybe I'm just speaking from experience.