How do you be mean?

[RichardTheFrog]

Yeah, I do not understand the pretentiousness at all. No doubt that plenty of women should get over themselves lol.

And it's not only hot ones, either.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

To start, you could be mean to start developing that thick skin with women. But as time goes by, you'll need to balance the act out because most women will see you as someone not be around.

They would just stop caring after 1 second.

They have no reason to be around me.

 

[Serenity]

People in Europe don't tip for anything.

Incorrect. It's not expected to leave a tip here in Europe, but many people leave a tip for very good service or food. That's how I always imagined it was intended for, not as a custom but as extra appreciation for services beyond expectation.

I'm European and have been to most parts of Europe, what you're saying is wrong. The main difference is that you won't be looked down on for not tipping in Europe, not that nobody tips.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Incorrect. It's not expected to leave a tip here in Europe, but many people leave a tip for very good service or food. That's how I always imagined it was intended for, not as a custom but as extra appreciation for services beyond expectation.

I'm European and have been to most parts of Europe, what you're saying is wrong. The main difference is that you won't be looked down on for not tipping in Europe, not that nobody tips.

Okay well I never get exceptional service here. So I'm cool with not tipping these spoiled little bratty girls who think their cleavage is worth a million bucks.

 

[Macaframalama]

Some of these examples aren't mean, even for the "King of mean" Spidey.

Put your self interest before all other things

To start, you could be mean to start developing that thick skin with women.

This is just stat quo. I once let 3 chicks beat the brakes off one of my exes and her sister for slapping me, taking my truck keys and taking off walking down the road with them for sucking on another chicks t!tties in front of her at a party. Not proud of that chit and looking back I deserved every bit of it, but hey "it's a party". Peter Parker has been talking all this gorilla pimp chit this whole time, when he's really just talking about normal chit every guy should do. The lieing and flaking chit is still gay AF though. Your balls and your word.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Some of these examples aren't mean, even for the "King of mean" Spidey.


This is just stat quo. I once let 3 chicks beat the brakes off one of my exes and her sister for slapping me, taking my truck keys and taking off walking down the road with them for sucking on another chicks t!tties in front of her at a party. Not proud of that chit and looking back I deserved every bit of it, but hey "it's a party". Peter Parker has been talking all this gorilla pimp chit this whole time, when he's really just talking about normal chit every guy should do. The lieing and flaking chit is still gay AF though. Your balls and your word.

Well girls don't take me seriously. I have been through way too much, and they have been through way too little, for them to not have respect for me.

I think I am going to just stop talking to them. I wouldn't talk to a guy who treated me that way, so why would it be any different for a girl.

And what makes the matter worse is that they're a bunch of idiots who don't know sh1t, and their precious gift to the world is a stinking hole.

 

[R.U.G.]

Just withdraw non-sexual attention. It drives them crazy IF they have interest in you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Just withdraw non-sexual attention. It drives them crazy IF they have interest in you.

I think I would rather withdraw sexual attention.

Which leaves me silent as I already am.

 

[ohrein]

I have been through way too much, and they have been through way too little, for them to not have respect for me.

Respect is earned through your actions. For example, I have no real reason to respect you on this forum other than social convention (which I believe is the right thing to do, so I do try to respect everyone here). But I, like a woman you've just met, has no knowledge of who you really are. It takes a long time to see if someone is respectable.

You need to demonstrate that you are worthy of respect before someone can truly respect you. Whether you do that with fear and intimidation or by being a good person will change the way people respect you as well.

Do you respect a police officer before you know what type of person they are? Probably not. Their respect is fear based.
Do you respect a doctor before you know what type of person they are? You probably do. Their respect is socially based.

But the point is, you can't walk around in life expecting people to respect you if they don't know you.

When you say you've been through too much, I'm not sure that's what earns respect anyway. It's character, fundamentally. How you conduct yourself through tough times.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Respect is earned through your actions. For example, I have no real reason to respect you on this forum other than social convention (which I believe is the right thing to do, so I do try to respect everyone here). But I, like a woman you've just met, has no knowledge of who you really are. It takes a long time to see if someone is respectable.

You need to demonstrate that you are worthy of respect before someone can truly respect you. Whether you do that with fear and intimidation or by being a good person will change the way people respect you as well.

Do you respect a police officer before you know what type of person they are? Probably not. Their respect is fear based.
Do you respect a doctor before you know what type of person they are? You probably do. Their respect is socially based.

But the point is, you can't walk around in life expecting people to respect you if they don't know you.

When you say you've been through too much, I'm not sure that's what earns respect anyway. It's character, fundamentally. How you conduct yourself through tough times.

I don't have to earn their respect any more than they have to earn mine.

Conduct myself through hard times. Yes, exactly. Hard times that I have experienced, and that they never will. For the most part, they are sheltered from hard times because they're female. They don't even acknowledge or appreciate this.

I have little to no respect for their pathetic gender as a whole. I was not born that way, it is the place they earned in my brain. Their super sluttiness is just the icing on the cake on top of their extreme pathetic weakness and the fact that they ask for money all the time just brings their patheticness to astronomical levels.

I would tell you that THEY HAVE TO EARN MY RESPECT, but we all know that my personal opinions are not going to change the strangehold that females/feminists have on the world.

I don't owe them sh1t. Not even an explanation of why I feel they should respect me, or even a word of English or even a look in the eye. They have EARNED zero respect from me. But nobody is ever going to care what I think because they have their a$$ kissed every day.

 

[ohrein]

I don't have to earn their respect any more than they have to earn mine.

Conduct myself through hard times. Yes, exactly. Hard times that they have never and will never experience.

I have little to no respect for their pathetic gender as a whole. I was not born that way, it is the place they earned in my brain.

I would tell you that THEY HAVE TO EARN MY RESPECT, but we all know that my personal opinions are not going to change the strangehold that females/feminists have on the world.

I don't owe them sh1t. Not even an explanation of why I feel they should respect me, or even a word of English or even a look in the eye. They have EARNED zero respect from me. But nobody is ever going to care what I think because they have their a$$ kissed every day.

Bitterness and resentment are going to be a huge road block for you then. I understand your position and I've been there too. It's going to be much healthier for you if you stop caring about others opinions. Because the problem is, people are a$$holes and they are idiots. If you have any investment in how people perceive you, you are concerned with how stupid a$$holes perceive you. Recipe for unhappiness. Stupid a$$holes don't really appreciate much at all.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Bitterness and resentment are going to be a huge road block for you then. I understand your position and I've been there too. It's going to be much healthier for you if you stop caring about others opinions. Because the problem is, people are a$$holes and they are idiots. If you have any investment in how people perceive you, you are concerned with how stupid a$$holes perceive you. Recipe for unhappiness. Stupid a$$holes don't really appreciate much at all.

A roadblock to what?

I don't see them as a prize.

What kind of idiot would value someone just because they have a hole between their legs?

 

[ohrein]

A roadblock to what?

Being happy.

I don't see them as a prize.

What kind of idiot would value someone just because they have a hole between their legs?

Absolutely agree.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Being happy.



Absolutely agree.

I've given up on being happy.

I smile once per year, and I'm okay with that.

Life isn't meant to be happy.

And I definitely don't think a girl could make me happy. Quite the opposite actually. Although sometimes they're nice to look at. Very rarely are they enjoyable to talk to. And sex can be fun, so good thing I know all about hookers so I don't have to put on some fake personality just to try to "get some" for free.

 

[ohrein]

I've given up on being happy.

Well happy is not the word I should have used, I am still trying to break that habit. Happiness is fleeting, but you shouldn't give up on being content with life. I was a suicidal alcoholic for years and I love my life now. But no one else is going to do the work for you. But the reason it's relevant on these forums is that women won't want to date the guy who isn't content (well, damaged women will). If you don't exude carefree, joyous confidence, your game will suffer.

Now, I'm not saying you should do anything, but if you aren't content and want to be, you have to make changes. If you're content with your life now then keep doing you.

 

[Serenity]

@RichardTheFrog What are you even doing on this forum? You've given up, this place isn't for guys who give up. Your bitterness is neither wanted nor desired, but that's all you have to give and you won't take any of our words seriously unless it feeds into your self--pity.

You're the worst member I have ever seen on this forum. If there's one thing you're the best at, it's being negative.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

@RichardTheFrog What are you even doing on this forum? You've given up, this place isn't for guys who give up. Your bitterness is neither wanted nor desired, but that's all you have to give and you won't take any of our words seriously unless it feeds into your self--pity.

You're the worst member I have ever seen on this forum. If there's one thing you're the best at, it's being negative.

I've never said a single self-pitying word. I just say real things.

If I say that it's ridiculous that I have to live in a world where females think their body parts make them "special," isn't that just a fact?

Also, fvck off. You're a pu$$y and don't know sh1t.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You're right. And you should be thinking this. But, it is not effective with women when it is conveyed through anger, bitterness or some other negative descriptive we can attach to it, because it will only be those negatives that will be noticed. Beyond this, the same behavior becomes kryptonite when women aren't attracted to you to begin with, let alone turned off by the anger and bitterness itself.

You CAN be a quiet guy who "walks softly with a big stick" in a way that conveys little tolerance for bullchit behavior. All it takes is a certain, calm, stoic look in your eye and they usually get the message. If they choose to ignore it and do something in spite of it, you can back it up with the action of letting her find her own damn way home. I can tell you they will certainly have a little more respect for that look the second time, if there is a second time.

But it doesn't work if that is the look you always tend to have on your face.

You've got to let the anger go in order for the idea to thrive effectively that women should earn your respect. It is not about being mean, abusive or hating women. It is about clearly establishing a boundary in a very clear and direct way.

I feel like they are going to force me to do something psychotic to get them to take me seriously. Unfortunately, I don't want to go to prison.

If I operated from the frame that "women" had to earn my respect, I don't think they ever would because I already know that all they have to offer is their bodies. Maybe that sort of thought would work well if this were an Ottoman harem, but this is feminized society we live in where little girls think they should wield power.

 

[R.U.G.]

I think I would rather withdraw sexual attention.

Which leaves me silent as I already am.

Most don't care as another man would be happy to insert their d!ck into any of their holes.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Most don't care as another man would be happy to insert their d!ck into any of their holes.

So I guess me and "women" have nothing to talk about then. Other than the occasional hooker.

If I don't respect them, why would I enable more of their bull$h1t by giving them more of the sexual attention that they get 24/7.

As far as nonsexual attention, that sh1t is boring to both of us anyway.