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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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how do you avoid taking high maintenance HB for dinner before you've slept with her?

thevilittletroll

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what i like to do is this. find something that is a passion or hobby that you like to do. something that you know that you already have plans to do on a certain night and invite her to tag along. if she flakes on you it doesnt matter, you already have plans to do that, and its something that makes you happy. it could be something like, rock climbing, a martial arts class, cooking class, dance class. i play on a rec hockey team and invite them to watch. there's a bar there i tell them to grab a drink and watch my team play.
 

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Dinner dates are for ONLY AFTER you've been laid. If done before, you are being USED DUMMY!

Judge nismo calls the shots. I call what we're gonna do. If she can't comply, get lost. If she can't appreciate simple fun, get lost.

Atlanta is full of these high maintenance b**ches. It's spreading down to the HB3's out here thinking they're entitled to a Falcons player!

My way or the highway motherf**ker. That should be your motto in these situations. Don't let a b**ch lead you around.

Case closed. I'm not catering to these b**ches demands.
 

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the question i still have is though: what do you say to avoid going to expensive dinner when she suggests it?

bear i mind, i can't use 'we'll cook together' or 'split the bill' or suggest somewhere cheap (she'll just suggest somewhere else more fancy and is a fussy eater)

do i just ignore the comment and just do what i want to do as if she never even suggested it?
 

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nismo-4 said:
Dinner dates are for ONLY AFTER you've been laid. If done before, you are being USED DUMMY!

Judge nismo calls the shots. I call what we're gonna do. If she can't comply, get lost. If she can't appreciate simple fun, get lost.

Atlanta is full of these high maintenance b**ches. It's spreading down to the HB3's out here thinking they're entitled to a Falcons player!

My way or the highway motherf**ker. That should be your motto in these situations. Don't let a b**ch lead you around.

Case closed. I'm not catering to these b**ches demands.
i know.. i said that to her in my text but i've come across cheap according to the guys on here. this has been a real stumbling block with other women who suggest dinner and i have no way around it apart from ignoring it.
 
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