"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you attract a non white girl that's good looking

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I'm black and I've only with white girls my whole entire life. Yes, I've had black girls go for me, but they have never been good looking enough for me to accept them. tbh, I'm quite done with them and they are overrated af compared to other races of women. I'm really in to light skinned hispanics/eastern euros, but I can do Asians and light skinned black girls. What do I do to change my predicament? I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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find one who isn't a racist, then do whatever it is you do that gets the white girls. it's more or less that simple.

sure there are plenty of girls of all races who'll be an uphill battle because of your race or whatever, but since this isn't 1950 there are enough non-racist girls for it to not be worth the effort to deal with that lol.

I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
who cares what kind of asian she is, what matters is if the girl is hot or not
 

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I'm black and I've only with white girls my whole entire life. Yes, I've had black girls go for me, but they have never been good looking enough for me to accept them. tbh, I'm quite done with them and they are overrated af compared to other races of women. I'm really in to light skinned hispanics/eastern euros, but I can do Asians and light skinned black girls. What do I do to change my predicament? I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
I would work on attraction, in general. That way there's no limit to the colors, types, ethnicities, etc. you can attract.

I find women of all races and colors, extremely smoking hot!!! So, as a consequence, my option pool is completely saturated!!! :D
 

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a "non white girl that is good looking".....never knew there was such a thing. :p
 

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Being way too picky limits your options... As long as you're attracted, why does it matter!?!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What about mixed people? They really mess up the idea of thinking about women by race. My ex wife is half English, quarter Indian, and quarter black. The more diverse the gene pool from which to select, the healthier, smarter, and more attractive the resulting person becomes. It's like the opposite of fvcking your sister.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Funny I have the opposite problem finding a white woman who is good looking. They all look too big to me. But then my tastes r well known ;)
 

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The same game that attracts white women attracts non-white women. Women are the same. The only difference will be how you pass the physical attraction test.
 

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I m a European Kiwi. I ve always found Asian women cute. Last two g/f s have been Asian and a few priors before that. At least with the mainland Chinese girls I be found they re more loyal, hard working and supportive.

Of course they still have to be handled well - they r still women. You just get a bit more of the good and a bit less of the bad with the base model.

And Asian cultures generally respect age which is a nice change now I ve got long in the tooth.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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