"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you attract a non white girl that's good looking

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I'm black and I've only with white girls my whole entire life. Yes, I've had black girls go for me, but they have never been good looking enough for me to accept them. tbh, I'm quite done with them and they are overrated af compared to other races of women. I'm really in to light skinned hispanics/eastern euros, but I can do Asians and light skinned black girls. What do I do to change my predicament? I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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find one who isn't a racist, then do whatever it is you do that gets the white girls. it's more or less that simple.

sure there are plenty of girls of all races who'll be an uphill battle because of your race or whatever, but since this isn't 1950 there are enough non-racist girls for it to not be worth the effort to deal with that lol.

I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
who cares what kind of asian she is, what matters is if the girl is hot or not
 

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I'm black and I've only with white girls my whole entire life. Yes, I've had black girls go for me, but they have never been good looking enough for me to accept them. tbh, I'm quite done with them and they are overrated af compared to other races of women. I'm really in to light skinned hispanics/eastern euros, but I can do Asians and light skinned black girls. What do I do to change my predicament? I found out my fat ass roommate had sex with an asian and it honestly made me mad. She could have been ugly af, but the only asians that want me are those indochinese type. I want the northern asians lol.
I would work on attraction, in general. That way there's no limit to the colors, types, ethnicities, etc. you can attract.

I find women of all races and colors, extremely smoking hot!!! So, as a consequence, my option pool is completely saturated!!! :D
 

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a "non white girl that is good looking".....never knew there was such a thing. :p
 

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Being way too picky limits your options... As long as you're attracted, why does it matter!?!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What about mixed people? They really mess up the idea of thinking about women by race. My ex wife is half English, quarter Indian, and quarter black. The more diverse the gene pool from which to select, the healthier, smarter, and more attractive the resulting person becomes. It's like the opposite of fvcking your sister.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Funny I have the opposite problem finding a white woman who is good looking. They all look too big to me. But then my tastes r well known ;)
 

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The same game that attracts white women attracts non-white women. Women are the same. The only difference will be how you pass the physical attraction test.
 

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I m a European Kiwi. I ve always found Asian women cute. Last two g/f s have been Asian and a few priors before that. At least with the mainland Chinese girls I be found they re more loyal, hard working and supportive.

Of course they still have to be handled well - they r still women. You just get a bit more of the good and a bit less of the bad with the base model.

And Asian cultures generally respect age which is a nice change now I ve got long in the tooth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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