Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How do you ask a girl for a blow.job?
- Thread starter Couto
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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LESSON #2
After you get your first BJ with her and things have progressed.
Work them up really good during the date, lots of teasing and kino.
Then when you are driving back to your place, let em know what's up.
Broads love giving road head! YUP! Yeah that's what I'm talkin bout son.
Just keep your eyes on the Fing-ROAD! Oh sh*t cancel this she is only 18.....yeah probably best to wait til you are in your 20's, this might be a little advance for you. Good luck dude!
After you get your first BJ with her and things have progressed.
Work them up really good during the date, lots of teasing and kino.
Then when you are driving back to your place, let em know what's up.
Broads love giving road head! YUP! Yeah that's what I'm talkin bout son.
Just keep your eyes on the Fing-ROAD! Oh sh*t cancel this she is only 18.....yeah probably best to wait til you are in your 20's, this might be a little advance for you. Good luck dude!
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I had this same problem a few weeks ago, asked this same forum, and here's how I got my first BJ.
Me and my gf had very sexual make outs (my hand usually under her bra or in her pants), but she hadn't blown me. What worked for me, is while making out, slowly guide her hand to your ****. At first my gf didn't do anything, but eventually she got the message and started feeling/squeezing it. At that point, just start taking off your pants and boxers. At this point my gf was jerking my **** while we were making out. I told her "lets just do one thing at a time", looked at my ****, and she got the message and started blowing me.
Me and my gf had very sexual make outs (my hand usually under her bra or in her pants), but she hadn't blown me. What worked for me, is while making out, slowly guide her hand to your ****. At first my gf didn't do anything, but eventually she got the message and started feeling/squeezing it. At that point, just start taking off your pants and boxers. At this point my gf was jerking my **** while we were making out. I told her "lets just do one thing at a time", looked at my ****, and she got the message and started blowing me.