"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you ask a girl for a blow.job?

Couto

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Let's get straight to the point

How do I ask a girl for a blow.job?
Key points

-She's 18
-Inexperienced
-Very high interest
-Got physical with her (she was basically begging for my hand to attached to her ass)
-She got a fat ass son

What are some things I could say to bring up the idea of it or the actual act.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Uncharted

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You should search there is a topic on this. Basically start kissing and touching her, then move your hand down, unbutton your pants, and say something like "go down on me.. right now".

That's worked for me.
 

Ronaldo7

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Pull it out and tell her to get on her knees. How else?
 

JoeMarron

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One does not ask for a blow job or anything else sexual for that matter. You tell her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jaylan

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First off, if youre a dude who doesnt go down yourself, dont expect girls to be so willing. In my experience, many girls will reciprocate after youve given them a good licking.

Or you can simply say, with a nice sexual tone "I want your mouth on me". Its not pushy or too forward, but its too the point. Ive similarly told girls I wanted to taste them and before you know it, Im neck deep in vagina lolz
 
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Couto

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Thanks for the replies guys I have a better idea of how this interaction should go down. Basically be sexually authoritative after making her wet.

If I get blown tomorrow I'll be sure to thank you all.
 

Atom Smasher

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Send her a nice text message asking if she will please go down on you the next time you see her.

To you noobs who don't know me...jk.
 

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I've been making out with women before, and if we're on a sofa or something, I might suck on her titties and if I want to get blown, I'll put her hands on my unit and then after a bit I'll basically just move myself and stick it in her mouth. Then she sucks. I haven't done this to too many woman, but I've never been rejected either. One you're making out and she's getting hot, and she has her hands on your unit, you're pretty much in. Try it sometime.
 

Epimanes

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To answer your original question. You ask her with tactful words! Maybe in a setting where sex is not on thge plate you could ask her what she thinks of oral sex as a way to avoid pregnancy. She will likely respond better when there is no pressure for her to actually do it and when the oppertunity arrises (pun intended) she will likely go for it while reminding herself that its the best way to get each other off and avoid getting preggo.

Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love

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You pull it out, and tell her "You have 5 licks/strokes to convince me to let you continue."
 

Married Buried

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What you do is you start making out with her and get hot and heavy and then pull it out and have her stoke it. If she won't do that, forget the BJ. After she does that, you just tell her to suck it a little.
 

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Tell her your nick names lizard tongue and you eat good pusay..lol. no but seriously get her really horny and wet and move her hands to ya cok and if she starts to stroke it, just say "baby I want you to go down on me."
 

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I think the problem with this question is that it suggests a scenario where you are not getting seriously physical already. Which you should. When the clothes come off is the right time to ask for oral sex. She won't give it to you with clothes on while you're eating her handmade hamburgers with all the extras and watching TV, unless it's your birthday. (True story...?)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CJ 101

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You never ASK a chick to give you a blow job, you tell her to do it. I'm not bragging but as far a getting head from chicks i can clearly say that i'm a master at it, few chicks have been with me who i couldn't get to suck my ****. The key is physical escalation, you kino her to the point where you get her all hot and heavy and then you let her feel how hard your **** is without unzipping your pants, you touch her ***** and start fingering her then switch over to unzipping your pants/ jeans and then you tell her to suck you off for a little bit, if she resists tell her to just put it in her mouth and that all females do it to guys they like, that it's a way a females really shows how much she like a guy and she's down for him a 100%. For me this is what usually works, it doe's work on all girls but on the vast majority it does work.
 

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poke her with your boner and say "suck"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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