"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you approach girls in everyday situations?

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Lexie said:
I agree to an extent: there's not one thing that's going to work every time, girls are emotional/crazy/moody/weird. Good luck figuring out how the female mind works!
lol, we all know every woman is different personality wise, and all that BS. But were talking about things pertaining too PU that we have control over. That stuff so longs you know about it will always work on chicks.

For example Buying Temperature is in all girls. Every chick when they become emotional they stop thinking logical. Heck you can see Buying Temperature in everyday life.

Her being wierd or crazy is just part of her personality, which you'd see over time, but as far as getting women goes it is generally the same on all girls. You don't need 4-5 different types of game or should I say personalities to get 4-5 different kinds of women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smile and say "Hi." If she smiles back and says "Hi" then its ON. I can't take credit for the idea (Sigma) but I will say it has worked for me in the past. It also prevents blow outs in public places, which can be common with canned openers used during day game. Don't use canned openers during day game, its just pathetic.
 
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Well, I'm not sure if this has been said in one form or another already in this thread because I honestly don't feel like going through and reading them all, but...

You can pretty much say whatever the hell you feel like to a girl if she seems to like you. Well, short of something that really pisses her off. Me, I have a pretty cheesy sense of humor, and try to use it to my advantage.

If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?" But you've got to say it with confidence, and most importantly, a huge cheesy grin that says "Yes, I know my pickup line is goofy as hell, but I don't give a fvck about being smooth and want to break the ice and see where this goes."
 

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MooseGod said:
...If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?" But you've got to say it with confidence, and most importantly, a huge cheesy grin that says "Yes, I know my pickup line is goofy as hell, but I don't give a fvck about being smooth and want to break the ice and see where this goes."
I'd consider paying money to see a guy sucessfully use that line but it would be too painful for me to watch.
 

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^ Well, obviously you have to make up for it with the conversation that follows, but it would work in a pinch just for an icebreaker. If the girl has a sense of humor and you're good looking, that is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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^ Well, obviously you have to make up for it with the conversation that follows, but it would work in a pinch just for an icebreaker. If the girl has a sense of humor and you're good looking, that is.
That's what I'm saying, unless you can sustain an interesting conversation just saying anything will just make you look silly more often than not.
 

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i think you can say anything but what matters is how you follow up afterwards with your body language. If you say the line dead-pan and then slowly break into a big sh!t-eating grin, you are on the right path and she will likely laugh with you, otoh if you deliver the same line, fidgeting, or with the nervousness and anxiety, you will get blown out. Thats why when you retell a joke that Eddie Murphy or Ray Romano said, you don't get that same response because there are likely traits that you are missing that the comedian has honed in on over the years
 

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Thus the reason why many guys who say anything like a joke from Seinfeld or something supposedly c/f but delivers it incorrectly follows it up with a "Ha-ha, just joking" after getting a blank stare from the woman. Usually that's when the fidgeting, nervousness and anxiety goes into overdrive.
 

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If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?"
Watch Animal House when Flounder asks the frat guys, "You guys playing cards?" Their reaction is the one you're likely to get.
 
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