"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you approach girls in everyday situations?

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Lexie said:
I agree to an extent: there's not one thing that's going to work every time, girls are emotional/crazy/moody/weird. Good luck figuring out how the female mind works!
lol, we all know every woman is different personality wise, and all that BS. But were talking about things pertaining too PU that we have control over. That stuff so longs you know about it will always work on chicks.

For example Buying Temperature is in all girls. Every chick when they become emotional they stop thinking logical. Heck you can see Buying Temperature in everyday life.

Her being wierd or crazy is just part of her personality, which you'd see over time, but as far as getting women goes it is generally the same on all girls. You don't need 4-5 different types of game or should I say personalities to get 4-5 different kinds of women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smile and say "Hi." If she smiles back and says "Hi" then its ON. I can't take credit for the idea (Sigma) but I will say it has worked for me in the past. It also prevents blow outs in public places, which can be common with canned openers used during day game. Don't use canned openers during day game, its just pathetic.
 
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Well, I'm not sure if this has been said in one form or another already in this thread because I honestly don't feel like going through and reading them all, but...

You can pretty much say whatever the hell you feel like to a girl if she seems to like you. Well, short of something that really pisses her off. Me, I have a pretty cheesy sense of humor, and try to use it to my advantage.

If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?" But you've got to say it with confidence, and most importantly, a huge cheesy grin that says "Yes, I know my pickup line is goofy as hell, but I don't give a fvck about being smooth and want to break the ice and see where this goes."
 

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MooseGod said:
...If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?" But you've got to say it with confidence, and most importantly, a huge cheesy grin that says "Yes, I know my pickup line is goofy as hell, but I don't give a fvck about being smooth and want to break the ice and see where this goes."
I'd consider paying money to see a guy sucessfully use that line but it would be too painful for me to watch.
 

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^ Well, obviously you have to make up for it with the conversation that follows, but it would work in a pinch just for an icebreaker. If the girl has a sense of humor and you're good looking, that is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^ Well, obviously you have to make up for it with the conversation that follows, but it would work in a pinch just for an icebreaker. If the girl has a sense of humor and you're good looking, that is.
That's what I'm saying, unless you can sustain an interesting conversation just saying anything will just make you look silly more often than not.
 

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i think you can say anything but what matters is how you follow up afterwards with your body language. If you say the line dead-pan and then slowly break into a big sh!t-eating grin, you are on the right path and she will likely laugh with you, otoh if you deliver the same line, fidgeting, or with the nervousness and anxiety, you will get blown out. Thats why when you retell a joke that Eddie Murphy or Ray Romano said, you don't get that same response because there are likely traits that you are missing that the comedian has honed in on over the years
 

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Thus the reason why many guys who say anything like a joke from Seinfeld or something supposedly c/f but delivers it incorrectly follows it up with a "Ha-ha, just joking" after getting a blank stare from the woman. Usually that's when the fidgeting, nervousness and anxiety goes into overdrive.
 

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If you have the right delivery, you can get away with something like "So, uh...you buy peanut butter here often?"
Watch Animal House when Flounder asks the frat guys, "You guys playing cards?" Their reaction is the one you're likely to get.
 
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