"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do you answer the questions 'so what did you do last night?' if you were supposed to meet

pete101

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if i am supposed to meet a HB tonight but she was being silent not replying to my confirmation messages and i made a joke about taking some other pretty girl instead and she counter offers with tomorrow and i said i couldn't meet tonight anyway as i made other plans (ie with another girl) im gona get the sh1t test of 'so what did you do last night?'

how do i answer this question? given the back story. i need to infer i might have been out with another girl even if i wasn't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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back story (not necessary to read):

i was supposed to meet a hot HB tonight but she just went silent on me since yesterday, i threw in a few jealousy plot messages to seed doubt even though they may be received as fake. she suddenly came back to me saying sorry she was shopping, i ignored her for a min after reading it and she followed up with a counter offer of 'how about tomorrow instead?' the original msg from yest was along the lines of 'meet me by the station tomorrow i'll let you know which entrance closer to the time' msg read but no reply. so fast forward to this lunch, i msg her saying 'meet me at the side entrance on the right, we're going to the cafe on that side ok? hope you figured out what you're going to wear for me ;) see you at 7. (she asked me in our original convo what i wanted her to wear for me.. i was taken a back by this as i wasn't sure whether to say something sexual or keep it clean to play it safe)

after 2 hours still no reply and normally i would leave it as it shows low IL her silence (she's weird like if i send a whatsapp msg during the day or before 7pm it will be read but no reply but if i follow up after 7pm i'll get a reply and full convo.. i just assumed she was busy at work and gets so many msgs like 300 that it just gets lost) so i decided to try something new and threw in a couple jealousy plot messages of 'well tell me if we're meeting or not otherwise i'll take some other pretty girl instead and you'll miss out :) i just wouldn't want you missing out on seeing me and having a great night n someone else take your place ;)'

read, no reply. so i delete the convo. 3 hours later i get the message counter offering tomorrow. i reply with 'ok. i can't meet tonight anymore anyway made other plans. i have an early dinner with friends tomorrow but should be free from 8 to 10pm. let's meet same time same place.' she replies 'okay' i would have left it there but i sent 'see you then'

she's a model and i haven't met her before, meet off facebook.
 

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Tell her you got laid
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be vague, "went out"
^^^this, OR, go ghost for a few days and "be busy". When a woman who is supposed to go out with me ends up not going out and gives me no good believable reason, I quite frankly find it disrespectful if she has the nerve to ask me what I did instead.. If she gave two sh|ts about what I was doing she should have remained a part of it. Her loss.
 
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