She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
threre is a lot of info on Social game - including AMOGs over on "the attraction forums"saber101 said:I know most men hate amogs, but i feel like it could be a useful skill, such as when a guy is crossing the line in what he can say to you, or is hitting on your girl. i want to hear a variety of techniques/opinions on this
Well no its not stupid, its quite improtant to know how to deal with people AMOGing you, and how to be more of the AMOG yourselfterran2k said:amog is stupid games. If someone crosses the line, you let them know, girl or guy. people will only treat you the way you let them treat you, remember that.
Some good advice in this post. This is the kind of answer i was looking for. I've never slapped anyone before haha. could be fun hahaDanelMadr said:Basically you let them know with a smile that they are crossing a line. But it is important to not to corner them...let them retreat with dignity...unless of course they crossed too far by first step by openly challenging you.
Someone talks to your girl. You come there and say "Hey buddy that is my sister you are talking to and time is up." Wink. Or put your hands on his shoulders saying that.
If he comes to her and says "Why are you with such a douche bag like him" and points at you....smile...and say "It hurts doesn't it?"...if he does not get that he just came across someone dangerous and continues with bs....smile....stand up quickly and slap him so hard he sits on his azz....works every time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The famous Czech Slap (invented in Czech republic and used often there) is well known because of it's stunning and shaming effect. And it is seldom as dangerous as fist punch.saber101 said:Some good advice in this post. This is the kind of answer i was looking for. I've never slapped anyone before haha. could be fun haha