“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maeisgood

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What makes a good thread for a forum and what makes a bad one? What do the threads have in common that get viewers and responders to it? I've noticed some threads that have pages and pages of responses, and others are entirely overlooked. I don't think my threads are usually very good, because they seldom get over 5 replies, and I don't think my questions are too bad, we've all seen worse.

I think if everyone knew how to make a great thread, then every forum would be even better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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search through threads with more then 8 pages of replies and find a common contextual element. Then start a thread along those lines, using a personal experience as a starting point, and leading up to a "what should I do" type of question.

then pop in several times during the thread, but not too much, to give updates which give the problem more drama.

Bonus points if you give readers either a new perspective on things, or a feeling of superiority for giving you advice, just like I'm doing here.:up:
 

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Well your apparent definition of a great thread is one with pages and pages of replies correct?

Well producing those can result from either pandering to a certain groups ego investments or challenging a certain group to think outside the box and better themselves which would then be considered a controversial thread.

The mindless pollyanna positivity threads found in the forum archive with 17 plus pages and five star ratings and those of today's Sosuave morality crew are the first type.

The second type are threads posted by Str8up and Rollo Tomassi and similar posters.

Though rarely someone might make a thread that hits the sweet spot that appeals to both groups.

I'd say joekerr31 and squirrelz were experts at those kind of posts.

Other lengthy threads can be the result of a teaching thats time has come in that it contained the consciousness raising information or inspiration that the masses of posters were looking for or some such and then it goes on to be posted in for a great long while.

Now you might wonder but KontrollerX how then does a garbage thread like the masturbation discussion go on forever when it should of been deleted ages ago freeing up much needed bandwidth which could of then prevented us from having been put under the retarded 10 post limit restriction?

And I would shake my head and sadly answer you with that age old saying...

"One man's trash is another man's treasure". :(

And I'd leave it at that. :up:
 

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You know how to write a good thread? Don't TRY to write a good thread. If your intent is to write a good thread your head's in the wrong place.

For as long as I've been a SS member, and in spite of my postcount, I actually start very few threads. 90% of the ideas I develop in writing are in response to thread topics. When I do begin a thread it's usually something I've been contemplating and haven't seen posted or it might be a new angle on an old idea in an existing thread I want to reconsider.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
You know how to write a good thread? Don't TRY to write a good thread. If your intent is to write a good thread your head's in the wrong place.

For as long as I've been a SS member, and in spite of my postcount, I actually start very few threads. 90% of the ideas I develop in writing are in response to thread topics. When I do begin a thread it's usually something I've been contemplating and haven't seen posted or it might be a new angle on an old idea in an existing thread I want to reconsider.
Yeah.... who needs to start threads when SS has members like Str8up to do it for you. :whistle:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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