"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do u show that u r a sexual being???

Avn_0903

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A lot of advice on this site say that u have to show u r a sexual being?? And that u should listen to ur testosterone. I find this very abstract and hard to apply to real life. Can any1 care to elaborate on this?? Please give specific example if u can.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brandonc662

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Avn_0903 said:
A lot of advice on this site say that u have to show u r a sexual being?? And that u should listen to ur testosterone. I find this very abstract and hard to apply to real life. Can any1 care to elaborate on this?? Please give specific example if u can.
Its about escalating. If you do not continuously escalate until sex you will be stuck in the friend zone. She will be comfortable with you but if you do not move forward (be sexual) she will see that comfort as friendly instead of sexual.
 

The Sperminator

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A lot of guys are too scared to make a move or talk about anything sexual. Thats why they get friend zoned. Girls will not make the first move, unless you are a stud and shes a slut. But for the most part they won't it's your job. Don't be afraid to say something sexual or touch her or kiss her. Of course you have to do these things the right way and at the right time but it's better in my opinion to do these things then not. Don't be a *****. Even if you get rejected you at least didn't waste too much time to know if she liked you or not and have a lot less chance of being friend zoned. I get rejected often but I also can get girls and this is done by being sexual. I used to never be sexual and I was always friend zoned because I would never do anything because I was afraid she would be offended. Now I don't give a **** if she is lol. And it feels good to not be scared anymore. If you don't make a move you get friend zoned 99 percent of the time. But to take a chance and make a move than not too. Just say **** it and do it.
 
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