How do u handle chicks that blow u off?

[EyeBRollin]

I “handle them” by deleting their number and blocking it.

 

[bat soup]

2 months now.
no sex yet
she said she would call me

DTB (Dump that BIAAAAAATCH)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

22 years old forum thread to be exact dudebro

Yeah it's amazing how there have been a rash of these with posters digging really hard to rejuvenate 15+ year old posts...and for what reason?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

and for what reason?

For the LULZ?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Honestly its fun to see that the issues back then and now and that they are about exactly the same now.
We guys are simple creatures ha ha..

 

[BackInTheGame78]

For the LULZ?

I thought they might have done it all for the nookie...

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I thought they might have done it all for the nookie...

Ha ha..

I could not resist to toss this vid in.. Still an awesome tune.

 

[Suave88]

Here is my dillema. Ive been seeing this girl now for like 2 months now. We have gone out a few times etc. Messed around a bit ( no sex yet). We were supposed to go out today and she said she would call me but I have yet to hear from her nor do I think I will. She has to go to work at 4pm today so theres still an hour left till 4pm and I dont think its gonna happen. How do I handle something like this? Im not gonna call her...at least for a few days unless I hear from her first. But should I act mad or just pretend like I didnt care. As a side note to this we had plans last saturday and she cancelled on me cause she was doing something with her best friend. She was like youre gonna be mad at met etc. And I acted like I it didnt bother me too much. I did tell her that hey im not mad but dont make a habit out of cancelling plans when u have them with someone. I also feel that its necessary to say here that..I have told this girl in the past that I wanna take things slow etc. and not talk on the phone every day got out constantly cause it will just kill things for us. Im not looking for a relationship from this girl...but at the same time I think I deserve a little respect here also. Anyone have any opinions on this please post em.


Thanks
Magas

You been seeing some girl for 2 month and no push in the bush????? Or you been seeing her at work, and gone out on dates?

 

[Pandora]

I used to get angry at them. I thought i had to put them " in their place". Tell them not to disrespect my time. It was the worst thing I could have done.

You are supposed to go do your favorite hobby. Go play a great game of basketball. Go for an awesome run, go spar in a dojo etc.

She will sense the TRUE indifference. Dont let her be the only exciting thing in your life.

 

[Borknagar]

Delete number. They no longer exist. If you run into them, pretend you don't know them or tell them "it's ok, I met someone cooler and better looking anyway, it's going great".

 

[EyeBRollin]

Handle them by not handling them.

 

[Divorced w 3]

The advice here is actually pretty bad. I can GUARANTEE you, shes been flaky beacuse there is another guy in the picture. You have become the second string. When a girl gives you less, its because shes giving another guy more. The best thing for you to do in this situation is, DO NOTHING. Dont reply to her or reach out. Write it off as experience and relfect where it was and what you did that made her lose interest in you. My guess was when OP says, " I did tell her that hey im not mad but dont make a habit out of cancelling plans when u have them with someone. " and " I have told this girl in the past that I wanna take things slow etc. and not talk on the phone every day got out constantly cause it will just kill things for us. ". These statements make me cringe. Dont tell her that. Just do those things. Let your actions speak loud and she will follow. . Best thing to do now. Pull back. If she reaches out again, be indifferent. Dont ask her out. If she brings it up, say you forgot and its no big deal.

First reply was perfect

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Handle them by not handling them.

Exactly.

Everything is what you make it.

You can make it nothing.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Get used to niggas trying to take your wife. She ain't yours.

Never get jealous, but if you pop a wanker in his mouth, you come out ahead

Know that, popping a wanker his mouth makes you a legend

 

[SW15]

I “handle them” by deleting their number and blocking it.

That's all that can be done here.

The best thing to do is to pretend like they never existed. When a woman doesn't prioritize a man in the early stage of an interaction, gives mixed signals, etc., the man needs to remove her from his life.

Since the era of common cell phones, this has become easier. Back in 2000 when this thread started, most people were not digitally storing contact information. Around that time, guys would probably need to destroy a piece of paper with her landline phone number on it.