"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do u guys deal with a SHY girl??

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ok, i know this girl in my english class.

she is about 7 if i put her on da scale.

well, thing is this girl is real shy, we made a couple of eye contact across the class room before, she looked down immediately and blushed. and plus i figured that she is a shy person from the way she speaks and behaviours around other students.(speaks quietly and blushes whenever a teacher ask her for an answer)

well, i have a smooth opener(since she is from germany, i was going to ask her, the reason she came to NZ.)

But i dont want to scare her off so i Do need you guys opinion on how to handle a shy girl.

So guys how do you open a shy girl to a open and wild(haha) biatch?

p.s. **i have a sort of idea that she may b not interested in me at all since her body language is closed and she didnt pick an idea when i asked her about the weather.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're over analyzing things. Don't have pre-emptive thoughts, don't assume the worst.

Just go and talk to her. It's pretty simple.
 
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oh ok thnx man, actually i do realize dat i always over analyze things ay, thanks anyways
 
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Did someone say New Zealand... dude.. You dont happen to be from Howick College do ya? We recently had a lot of german international students aspart of some exchange!

In terms of an opener... try and figure out the words to 'how are you?" or some catch phrase in German...My friend once asked the Sweedish international student to the ball by making a banner in Sweedish "Will You Go To The Ball With Me?"
 
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