"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do u guys deal with a SHY girl??

xconquerx

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ok, i know this girl in my english class.

she is about 7 if i put her on da scale.

well, thing is this girl is real shy, we made a couple of eye contact across the class room before, she looked down immediately and blushed. and plus i figured that she is a shy person from the way she speaks and behaviours around other students.(speaks quietly and blushes whenever a teacher ask her for an answer)

well, i have a smooth opener(since she is from germany, i was going to ask her, the reason she came to NZ.)

But i dont want to scare her off so i Do need you guys opinion on how to handle a shy girl.

So guys how do you open a shy girl to a open and wild(haha) biatch?

p.s. **i have a sort of idea that she may b not interested in me at all since her body language is closed and she didnt pick an idea when i asked her about the weather.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KillaCam

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You're over analyzing things. Don't have pre-emptive thoughts, don't assume the worst.

Just go and talk to her. It's pretty simple.
 

xconquerx

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oh ok thnx man, actually i do realize dat i always over analyze things ay, thanks anyways
 

ian1988

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Did someone say New Zealand... dude.. You dont happen to be from Howick College do ya? We recently had a lot of german international students aspart of some exchange!

In terms of an opener... try and figure out the words to 'how are you?" or some catch phrase in German...My friend once asked the Sweedish international student to the ball by making a banner in Sweedish "Will You Go To The Ball With Me?"
 
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